Hi, my husband is getting himself into a state because he was told by his oncologist he had two years to live. It’s now past that time and he can not understand why he is still here. We(his family and friends). Keep telling him not to think about that and live every day . He is 85 and was very active before his diagnosis, but with covid happening 2 months after his diagnosis he was confined to the house except for going for his treatment. Now he has no more treatment and he feels it’s just a waiting game. He gets out of bed every day but then sits in his chair, usually sleeping. I do try to get him out in the car as much as possible but he can not walk far only a few steps. He refuses to use a wheelchair. He keeps asking why he isn’t dead yet. Every night he says “I hope it’s tonight”I’m at a loss as to know how I can make things any better for him. Any ideas would be most welcome. Nicola.
