Hi everyone

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1¹¹I have kidney cancer diagnosed 2 years' ago. Over the 2 years I've had 2 telephone calls and one face to face meeting with a junior doctor.

In November I had my latest ct scan and was given a date for a telephone appointment on 15/12/22.

I asked the consultant's secretary if I could have a face to face appointment instead.

She said she didn't know and would get back to me.

I heard nothing and thought this meant "no". I sat and waited by my phone for 2 hrs and nothing happened.

The next day I phoned the hospital only to be told this was my fault for not turning up. I explained what had happened but got knowhere.

I now have to wait for a face to face appointment on 27/01/23. This has stressed me our really badly and I feel abandoned.

Does anyone have any ideas on how to deal with this please?

Many thanks.xx

  • Oh no, I really feel for you.  Why on earth didn't the dr just phone you when you weren't in the waiting room - it's not rocket science!    Definitely a shocker from the admin team there.   I've had appt letters which have had "telephone appt" handwritten on them and also letters re-sent out to change from in-person to phone.  I assume you've had so many phone calls because you were engaged during lockdown.  I can appreciate your frustration.  I got fed-up with phone consultations in 2022.  I really felt like a number and the consultant was deciding whether I was "allowed" on premise instead of a more collaborative decision based on how I was feeling about it.  I had a rant and I always go in now.  Trip out, escape him indoors, body language, better audio etc etc

    After you explained the sec should have acknowledged the mix-up and offered a quick call from the consultant. 

    After the utter annoyance on your behalf for doing nothing wrong, my immediate thought is that in the timespan of NHS waits, 27th Jan is 2 weeks away.  I thought they would have found a space in next weeks' clinic for you though, considering.  I've always found medical secretaries really nice and understanding.  I hope I don't meet yours :-(  

  • Aww thank you for your support lovely.

    the other thing, in February last year when I had a face to face appointment the Doctor said he would send a letteAfter 6 Weeks nothing.

    I phoned and the secretary said we don't normally send copies of letters to patients as they've been been told what's going on.

    She then said she'd have to ask if I was allowed to see the letter

    She did send it and it detailed the growth of my tumour and a timetable for action. I knew None of tihs.

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