Hi everyone, I feel absolutely stupid, I've been diagnosed with neck and tongue cancer, I've had all the tests and biopsies, I was in hospital for a week to have a Peg fitted, what never happened, this was so I could have six week treatment, radiotherapy every day and one day Chemo Therapy every week, I was sent for a second opinion at Northampton Hospital, after having more Biopsies done they are now going to operate, the surgeon has told me what may happen during surgery, I must say I'm literally terrified, I just got my head around having cancer, then radiotherapy...I'm absolutely terrified...
Hi 3791
welcome but so sorry to see you here.
what surgery are you having? Is it a neck dissection or something else? Are you still having chemotherapy and radiotherapy?
Stay with us. There is a world of lived experience here with lots of us ready to help and get you through. No question is silly and there is always someone with an answer.
Yes I'm have dissection my lymph node and removal, also part of my tongue removed on my right side also using my forearm to re consturct my tongue and no I haven't had any radiotherapy or chemo therapy, they are saying the operation would be best for the treatment ..
If you can avoid radiotherapy then that is a godsend. There are a few people here who have had the same op but not too many. If you look at the Mouth Cancer Foundation website they have a weekly zoom meeting on Mondays and a very active private social media group. There are lots of patients in your shoes there.
Click on the link below
https://www.mouthcancerfoundation.org/support/
If you join the group there is a very useful description in the files section there provided by one of the members here
PS there are members here who have had a dissection as that’s a very common part of the treatment. Lots of help available. I’m sure somebody who can share their experience will drop in soon.
Hi I had tors surgery for tonsil cancer 18 months ago and a neck dissection. I was lucky and didn't need chemo or radiotherapy. The dissection was OK, 2 days in hospital and it has healed amazing. Slight numbness in skin still. Feel free to ask any questions . I'm just waiting for mri scan and biopsy on something on my tongue now also, so perhaps we can get each other through it. So many lovely people on hear.
Lins
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