Hello everyone, this is my 1st post. I was diagnosed with tonsil cancer (T4N1 P16 positive) in Oct 25 and completed treatment in Dec 25. I was floored by the treatment, never expecting the side effects to be so brutal. I had chemo-radiotherapy followed by surgical pelvic clearance and permanent colostomy when I was diagnosed with stage 3 colorectal cancer in 2023 but nothing could have prepared me for the side effects of the tonsil cancer treatment.
Just before Christmas last year I was hospitalised for a week with severe neutropenia and sepsis, this was a few days after completing my 30 radiotherapy treatment sessions. Now 11 weeks on, my tongue is still ulcerated, my mouth painfully dry and swallowing very difficult. I can only manage a little soft diet so I get my calories from ensure supplemented with high protein milky shakes & I'm inexplicably tired all the time. On the plus side I can hear again, my voice is slowly coming back and the burns on my neck have healed so I'm making progress but I really expected to be feeling a lot better by now, I thought I'd be able to eat again, that I'd be sleeping properly and getting back to work soon. I realise everyone's recovery is different and everyone responds to treatment differently but I'd be very grateful to know if anyone who reads this has had a similar experience and if the time line of my recovery so far is normal.
I’m also experiencing a lot of hair loss; about 3 weeks into the treatment, I lost most of the hair from a very defined area at the back of my head because of the direction of the radiotherapy but now I’m steadily losing my remaining hair to the point where I now need a wig; I don’t know if anyone else has had this experience & if they have did their hair grow back? Thank you so very much in advance for reading this post.
I finished treatment on 12th Jan 26 i had chemo radiotherapy for base of tongue cancer so i am almost 6 weeks in recovery .Sounds to me like youve had it rough with the sepsis etc .I myself have been struggling but feel i am turning a corner my mouth is clear of ulcers bit i would say im 2 months away from being able to swallow and eat properly the worst bit has been the dry throat and i have been having choking fits these seem to have eased off a bit now thankfully .I lost some hair from the back of my head and my beard is almost non existent now .All my food and water etc is going through a RIG that i had fitted before treatment started .I would say you are a bit behind on recovery but its probably down to all the other shit youve had as well .The symptoms are normal but it seems you are recovering slowly but then your body and mind have gone through hell .I hope things get better for you soon .Are you seeing your cancer team ie Speach therapist ,Dietician etc they can help with any problems
Hi welcome to the club none of us wanted to join. My oncologist said he was looking to cure me but also apologised for taking a year out of my life to give me many more. He did both which I’m forever grateful. Recovery I always say it’s a marathon not a sprint. Some days 2 steps forward and one step back.
o lost a crescent shape of hair but I also know if a few ehi did loose a lot more. One lady did end up a wig but her hair did grow back eventually.
take it one day at a time you’ll get there
hugs Hazel x
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Thank you so much for your post, I hope you're doing well today. I don't have a feeding tube although its been talked about by the dietician and I'm going for review mid-march and that will be reassessed then. I've lost about 2 stone in weight since December but that seems to be stabilising now. Its been difficult to try to regulate my stoma output while being unable to manage very much orally. I've had similar difficulties to yourself re dry mouth & choking, lying down to sleep was very difficult but in the last couple of weeks that has eased off. Reading through other peoples experiences on this forum, I wonder whether a feeding tube might have helped me back at the beginning. I was quite resistant when it was proposed to me as I saw it as another procedure I would have to embrace when already I self catheterise daily as a result of the pelvic clearance surgery and irrigate my stoma on alternate days but my nutrition hasn't been great and that might be the reason that I sound as if I'm a bit behind on where I should be at this point.
Thank you for the welcome Hazel, and for the links you shared. You're right, whilst its a club nobody wants to belong to, it is so heartening to read that it does get better and no matter how bleak things can seem, this will pass. I had 6 weeks post treatment in my mind as being the turning point but that came and went without any discernible improvement. In my rush to get better I think I underestimated just how profound the effects of this treatment are. I had 5 weeks of daily chemo-radiotherapy for colorectal cancer in 2023 followed by 4 cycles of chemo which was hard going but nothing like the intensity of the side effects of tonsil cancer treatment; I am so glad I found this forum as there is no substitute for real experience.
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