Hello I’m new here. Relatiionship problems

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My partner left me 2 weeks before embarking on a 12 month reconstruction journey. I stupidly chase him but he replied saying he wanted a clean break. I would have dealt with this if I wasn’t going through what I’m going through. I was quite needy and asked for so much reassurance. Has anyone else had relationship issues? I need to find a way to get through this next year . 

  • Hi. I am so sorry you have been abandoned. Some people can just not cope with this and run away. The reasons are never simple. Unfortunately this is all too common. Please ring the support line ( number at the bottom of my reply). There’s help at hand. 
    Also do you have a Maggie’s near you? The centres are a good place where you can drop in for a chat or even counselling. 

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • Hi, so sorry to read this. The Swallows is a really good head and neck cancer charity, they have a 24 hr support line, where they can offer you advice and support. You can always post on here also.

    24/7 Patient & Caregiver Support Line: 07504 725 059

    Ray.

  • Hello and I am so sorry to hear of your problem.  I can't offer anything other than the advice Dani and Ray have already mentioned.  Sending you a virtual hug and letting you know we are a close knit family in this forum that do our best to listen and help when needed.

    Peter
    See my profile for more details of my convoluted journey