Head and Neck Cancer .looking for any advice

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Hi everyone,

I wanted to share a bit of my journey and ask for some advice or shared experiences.

I was diagnosed with base of tongue cancer after initially going to the doctor about a lump in my neck.After a number of tests, I was told on my 38th birthday that it was cancer — something I never expected to hear, especially at my age.

My treatment plan involved 30 sessions of radiotherapy and 2 rounds of chemotherapy, which I started on 28th April 2025 and completed on 6th June 2025. The first couple of weeks were manageable, but by week 2, things got really tough. I became nil by mouth and had to have a nasogastric (NG) tube fitted.

By week 3, the phlegm became relentless, and my mouth was covered in painful ulcers. The ulcers thankfully eased after a few weeks, but the thick phlegm stuck around throughout treatment and for a few weeks afterwards.

The NG tube eventually came out after I coughed it up, but in a way, that motivated me to try eating and drinking again — having the tube in was difficult for me emotionally, as it felt like a constant reminder of being unwell.

Now in recovery, I’m still struggling with tooth pain, which I’ve been told is a side effect of the treatment. I’m currently taking morphine and ibuprofen to help manage the pain. My throat is still sore, and swallowing is difficult most days. I can get down about 3 Ensures a day, along with small bits of soft food like oats and very soft bites of other things.

One of the most difficult things now is that some mornings it feels like my throat is completely closed, and it can take hours before I feel like I can properly swallow or clear it.

I wanted to ask:

  • Has anyone else experienced tooth pain or dental problems after treatment?
  • Is it normal for the throat to still feel sore or closed, especially in the mornings?
  • Does anyone have any ideas for calorie-rich, small meals or snacks that are easier to get down when eating is still a struggle?

Thank you in advance — any advice or shared experiences would be really appreciated. It helps so much knowing I’m not alone in this.

  • I'm waiting for my crown now.. so hopefully that will see an end to the problem..

    Loz (62)

    Oropharyngeal right tongue base T2N2bM0 squamous cell carcinoma p16 positive.. 

  • Thank you. I've order it along with the pastels. I'll try anything x

  • Thank you. I've order it along with the pastels. I'll try anything x

    Let us know how you get on. 

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • I’m able to get food and consume liquid , just my throat is still sore and dry . I was wondering if anyone knew any smaller meals where o can get everything in without to much strain on my swallowing.

  • Thank you for all your replies . Much appreciated. Everything seems so far away and out of reach, so to hear your stories is very reassuring. At the minute I’m struggling with constipation,  so I’ve changed to adding lots of fibre to my diet and lay off one less Ensure a day as I’ve read they bung you up. So my question at the minute is “has anyone made puree meals? Any recommendations?.”

  • “has anyone made puree meals? Any recommendations?.”

    I haven't but I've recommended Wiltshire Farm Foods who make and deliver

    https://www.wiltshirefarmfoods.com/ready-meals/level-4-puree-meals

    As for real food, try poached eggs, scrambled eggs with Philly added to make them softer and less grainy. Tinned peaches slip down well too.

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • Thank you that’s really helpful. Grin

  • Hi KD,

    I don’t know if having a ‘closed throat’ is normal but it is certainly something I experience almost every day along with a mouth that feels like if has been glued in position.  My solution is:

    On waking.

    Do not try and open mouth.  Head to the bathroom and rinse mouth with warm water bi-carb solution.  (one teaspoonful of bicarbonate of soda throroughly disolved in one cup of water, but find your optimum solution).   Gently ease a few drops into the mouth first; swill around and spit out.  As the mucus softens open your mouth more and sluice more. Do this for 4 or 5 rinses before gargling with the same solution.  Finish with a rinse of warm water and wait.  You are soon probably soon going to cough up some fairly significant phegm and mucous.

    Rinse mouth with bicarb solution as often as possible.  4, 6, 10 times a day…. It does not matter.  Always after food or drink!

    As for something to eat/drink, I am unable to eat solids at the moment and so am on Fresubin which I get free on prescription here in Australia.  Not that tasty but can be brightened up with some fruit in a blender and or mixed with other things.

  • Hi  

    Welcome to our little Community. We have quite a few folk from Australia here.

    How are you and where along your journey?

    Dani 

    Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019

    I BLOGGED MY TREATMENT 

    Macmillan Support Line -  0808 808 00 00 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

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  • was diagnosed with throat cancer (hypopharynx squamous cell carcinoma HSCC) in Nov 2024 and started combined chemo and radiation therapies at the end of Dec 2024.  The treatment was very, very challenging and the side effects became progressively worse as time went on persisting and peaking well after actual treatment ended. I am slowly recovering now although I am on immunotherapy as my cancer had metastasized into my lymph nodes and lung.   Just trying how to figure out how to post an introductory post like this one!