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1. Thank you. I’m the biggest worry wort wife there is.

And yours was nothing?

No shame in that....

I could not have gotten through the treatment without my wife's help and cajoling.

Try to stay off Google....

My wonderful husband sees it as nagging. But I do it because I want him here.  

markmac said:

And yours was nothing?

I don’t understand. Do you mean the nodules? They are really common in older folk and are due to some sort of chest infection in the past. Mine were 9 and 7mm.They are scar tissue 

I had my unreasonable moments with my wife....it's a very stressful time...I made sure my wife always had 'me time'...and a glass or two of Cava

Yes. When I hear nodules I suspect it’s something bad.  It’s not sometimes?

Yes this has been the most stressful time. I would not wish this on anyone. 

Very few understand what you are going through with your husband....all on here understand....you will get 24/7 support here

markmac said:

Yes this has been the most stressful time. I would not wish this on anyone. 

I know it’s hard but none of this is under your control. It is what it is. For your sake and for your husband’s you need to step back a little. You are going to make yourself ill. 
I don’t mean to upset you but do take this advice the way it’s meant, as a “ cancer friend”