Hello!
I've just been diagnosed with Cancer in my neck after various scans, biopsies, Tonsillectomy, etc. It's taken around four months from my initial GP appointment.
Not sure of the specifics just yet, but I've now been referred for a PET scan by the Consultant so should get more details once he's seen the PET results.
I'm surprisingly ok. My attitude is positive but realistic (I think!). Obviously not looking forward to what's ahead, but needs must.
So far the hardest thing for me is seeing the effect the news is having on friends and family.
I work for NHS Wales, and I'm a volunteer RNLI ILB crewman. This diagnosis means I will have to stand down from seagoing duties in the very near future, which is a major blow. Apparently worse things happen at sea, but not to me for much longer if I can't go afloat!
Cheers all,
TimR
weelcome to the group my friend we were all in a dark place at one time some of us still are sorry i cant advise you on your current situation but please please stick with the group here i am sure some one thats been through similar will reply to you soon all i can advise to you at this time is to try and stay strong and rise up and travel on rise above it because you are worth it
best wishes Rab
Hi Tim. Welcome to the group none of us wanted to belong to. I’m Hazel 4 years post radiotherapy and chemo for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes. Treatment is tough but if I can do it anyone can . My oncologist said he would cure me but take up to a year out if my life. He did both sn happily living life to the max. Any questions just ask one of us will always get back to you.
Hazel
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Hi Tim. Welcome to the Community. You are in that no man’s land in between diagnosis and treatment. It’s a difficult place to be but I can see from your post you are a positive man and that will stand you in good stead. Try not to worry about your family. I know how you feel. All of us go through that but just step back and turn the tables and you’ll see your worry is misplaced. This is your time and you need to concentrate on yourself
Things will be different when you have a treatment plan
I’m a three plus years survivor of base of tongue cancer and I’m living a good life. Treatment is but a distant memory
Best wishes and stay with us?
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Rab,
Thank you for your welcome and wise words. Very much appreciated.
Tim
Hi Hazel,
Thank you! Good to hear your thriving after treatment. It gives us rank beginner's hope for the future!
Tim.
Hi Dani,
Wise words indeed. Thank you. I'll definitely check out the post below.
Humour tends to be my go too coping strategy. It will definitely be better having all the information and a plan of action. Fear of the unknown and all that!h
Really good to hear you're over three years on and enjoying life.
Tim.
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