Hi I have just been diagnosed (4days ago) with cancer in my left tonsil and left lymph node. I am 56 and reasonably fit and well. In general I did not have any symptoms to speak off (still don’t) until the lump in my neck appeared at the beginning of June. I saw the dr after 14 days as the lump had not gone and he put in the referral. Based on the initial examination I was told there was no visual sign of oral cancer but to be on the safe side they got the Ultrasound and biopsy on the same day and an MRI a couple of days later. A couple of days prior to the MDT meeting I had a PET scan and dental checkup.The diagnosis is T1,N1,M0 and the suggested treatment is 6 weeks radiotherapy and up-to 2 chemo sessions which is due to start around the 21st August. What I don’t know at the moment is whether the cancer is hpv positive or hpv negative. In my case it could be either as I have only recently quit smoking.
Trying to get my head around this is a bit tricky but have decided to focus on sorting family and work matters out as well as trying to put on a few pounds in the next few weeks by increasing the protein and calorie intake.
Any advice as to questions I should be asking and anything that might help me prepare for what is about to happen would be much appreciated.
This is all a bit of a shock at the moment but after reading discussions on this forum there are some truly wonderful people on here with so much knowledge, thoughtfulness and compassion.
Thanks in advance
regards
T
As a more general note this morning for the first time ever experienced the want to go but can’t experience. My food intake on Tuesday was a little on the huge side as well which according to the nurse was probably a reaction to the steroids. Anyway I achieved success in the end but it was a palaver and any detail would be TMI.. needless to say I will be saying a short pray this evening to the lord laxido asking for deliverance in the morning.. sleep well all.
Get used to it. It’s certainly one of the less pleasant side effects, though manageable with Movicol, Laxidol, whatever. Take loads and loads of fluids too - I’m 8 months from treatment, though still on heavy duty painkillers, and downing sachets if the stuff daily in the hope of some “regularity”. Happy days!
Thanks M.
im not trying to put them down and there have been some really good people there. I just wish they’d stick to real life experience and suggestions/recommendations as we do here.
Guess I sound like a right old moaner, but I’m really not. I was the most positive person with the diagnosis and treatment until the last 8 weeks - I wish I’d stayed up with the Christie people in Manchester. I reckon I wouldn’t have had half the issues that I have had here, but hindsight is a great thing.
Back to sleep - hopefully! Night all!
As a more general note this morning for the first time ever experienced the want to go but can’t experience.
Yep...keep the Laxido going. I had two a day regularly but you can take more without dire consequences. It says so on the packet. Lord! I still have some in my paraphernalia box (which was a drawer at one stage threatening to become a cupboard.)
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
All
Just to let you know I ticked off the first week of treatment yesterday and had the first weekly consultants team meeting. In general pleased with progress, happy that I am keeping up a mild exercise programme (walks and bike work), diet etc ok and sensible social distancing. There was one topic of discussion which I am sure will not come as a surprise.
Personally this week has been a bit more hectic and tiring than maybe I expected, but then again I didn’t really know what to expect. Having done lots a scuba in the past helps with being able to relax on the radio therapy table, regulate the breathing and get in position quickly so these sessions fly by.
As it is very early days I am not feeling really any side effects to speak off other than a bit of late afternoon tiredness, the obvious and maybe a mouth that has a tinge of plastic to it rather than metallic.
On a plus point we also had a staging discussion and based on the revised definition for this disease it was confirmed as stage 1 which I thought was a nice way to end the week on.
In addition, a by product of the steroids has helped my hand heal faster and I might even be able to play a golf knockout match this weekend.
Thanks again for all your help and on we go to week 2 which starts with a double zapping on Tuesday..
best wishes
T
All looks good, T
Best wishes for week 2
At least you have a decent respite till your last chemo...and stage 1 is brilliant. With a bit of luck you'll get some Christmas dinner down you.
Enjoy your golf
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
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