Hi I have just been diagnosed (4days ago) with cancer in my left tonsil and left lymph node. I am 56 and reasonably fit and well. In general I did not have any symptoms to speak off (still don’t) until the lump in my neck appeared at the beginning of June. I saw the dr after 14 days as the lump had not gone and he put in the referral. Based on the initial examination I was told there was no visual sign of oral cancer but to be on the safe side they got the Ultrasound and biopsy on the same day and an MRI a couple of days later. A couple of days prior to the MDT meeting I had a PET scan and dental checkup.The diagnosis is T1,N1,M0 and the suggested treatment is 6 weeks radiotherapy and up-to 2 chemo sessions which is due to start around the 21st August. What I don’t know at the moment is whether the cancer is hpv positive or hpv negative. In my case it could be either as I have only recently quit smoking.
Trying to get my head around this is a bit tricky but have decided to focus on sorting family and work matters out as well as trying to put on a few pounds in the next few weeks by increasing the protein and calorie intake.
Any advice as to questions I should be asking and anything that might help me prepare for what is about to happen would be much appreciated.
This is all a bit of a shock at the moment but after reading discussions on this forum there are some truly wonderful people on here with so much knowledge, thoughtfulness and compassion.
Thanks in advance
regards
T
Hi Montus, you're definitely on the start of a longish journey now through treatment and then recovery, but the MDT will take care of you along the whole process. My best bit of advice would be to do everything your team tells you, from the face and swallowing exercises to diet especially. You haven't mentioned if you will be fitted with a feeding tube? For me, at least, this was essential, especially when eating and drinking became very difficult due to the radiation. But I think some others on here may have coped better than me!
I don't know if it will be of help but I chronicled everything from diagnosis to remission and back again in a blog (here), and a quite a few others have kept blogs too, all very different, personal acounts which I found incredibly useful to read when going through my own treatment.
I think it's safe to say that the chemoradiation therapy is not easy, but from your staging it looks like you have caught your cancer early, which is a huge plus in terms of outcome. Wishing you all the best, Anson
Hi Montus and welcome to the community. Anson has it really.
The best thing at the moment is to have a look at the blogs. Hazel RadioactiveRaz has a good one and mine is linked at the bottom of my post. I am a three plus years survivor of a T2 tongue tumour. I didn't have chemo though.
Hazel and I have ten/fifteen years on you at time of treatment. We did it!
Don't fight it. Go with the flow, look after yourself and it's doable a day at a time. We are all different. I needed nasogastric tube feeding for 8 weeks but by six weeks post treatment I was getting through it and by twelve I had turned a corner. Some people manage without. Whatever you do, don't be brave, don't suffer. Take your analgesia by the clock when you finally need it.
One of our other forum members, Mark, who still dips in now and again has a good blog in his profile MarkEL
Just click on his name here.
Stick around. There's lots of help and support here.
Let us know how it goes and good luck
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Anson. Thanks for the advice. As to the feeding tube this was not discussed at my meeting last week. There were so many things going round in my head at the time it was a question I didn’t ask. At the moment the Dr is away for 10 days and might not be able to respond to emails but I will put this on the list. In the meeting at the end I mentioned I had private medical cover and currently looking into the provider he mentioned called Genesiscare.. https://www.genesiscare.com/uk. In short this seems to be all the same Dr’s but in a different location. Any thoughts?
Hi I’m Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz I’m 4 years post radiotherapy for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes happily living my life as Anson and Dani have said it’s not easy but if I can do it anyone can. I had ng tube fitted reactively as was my trusts policy t was to be if needed and I needed it. On plus side it was oit week 3 of recovery I was treated at Leeds cancer centre NHS I can’t fault my treatment. I can’t comment re private medical only to say over last 4 years I’ve known one or two who have gone down that route their chemo was mostly private but radiotherapy was at nhs hospitals and sometimes there was crossover issues with regarding some aspects of treatment. Nothing insurmountable but just niggles.
Have a read of our blogs just remember we are all different yet the same. I Was T2N2NM.Intoo had no symptoms apart from lump in collar bone I had just completed 1100 km cycle rides in Spain fittest I had ever been.
Plus welcome from me to the club none of us wanted to join.
Hazel x
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Hu Anson Good to hear from you congratulations and well done in your latest ultra marathon.Onwards and uowards hope the immunotherapy is still going well.
Hazel x
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
I mentioned I had private medical cover and currently looking into the provider he mentioned called Genesiscare with a centre in Oxford. https://www.genesiscare.com/uk. In short this seems to be all the same Dr’s but in a different location. Any thoughts?
Hazel and I have seen a few people through this via private medical care. There’s no doubt that the personal attention you get through acute treatment is more comfortable but there has been some disjointed approach. Genesis seems to have its own RT rather than using NHS facilities on a private basis so maybe this won’t happen.
One of our ladies had her chemo at home.
Where it has fallen down is quality of post treatment care , especially if another department is needed to intervene
The doctors will be the same. These private centres don’t train their clinicians. They rely in the NHS to do it.
Personally I feel that once in the NHS system I would stay there.
Private care us much better and speedier for diagnosis.
I cant fault the NHS. My care was exemplary and seamless
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Dani. Thank you again for the advice. I spoke to them today and am going to pay them a visit. I also found out today from the medical report that the diagnosis P16 positive SCC in the left tonsil. Looking at another thread this appears to be a marker for HPV which might make this more respective/responsive to treatment. Hopefully I have understood that correctly.
Hi Montus. Yes HPV positive oropharyngeal cancers respond very well to radiotherapy, with a cure rate in excess of 90% at five years often quoted (stats are useful sometimes). Any chemotherapy serves mostly to sensitise the cells to the radiation. I didn't have chemo which seems to be reserved for patients with nodal spread and I had none.
Best of luck, let us know how you get on
One tip...make sure you have all the possibilities for aftercare...physio, lymphoedema clinic, dietician I including specialised liquid food if you need it...and most of us do) and speech and therapy covered by your insurance company from the outset so that you don't have to chase them while you are concentrating on treatment/recovery
I'm off to Berlin at last..... Covid, train strikes and EasyJet notwithstanding to see my daughter this morning for a week so will dip in and out to see how you are all doing
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Hazel. Thank you for all the advice.
All of your blogs are really helpful and easy to share with my partner.
It goes without saying that she is very worried at the moment.
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