Hi to all,
Hope it’s ok to post without a confirmed diagnosis.
I’ll start by saying I am 42 and have had a hiatus hernia diagnosis since I was early 20’s. I get a sore throat pretty often and always put this down to GERD as my hernia is pretty bad. PPI’s however have always kept it somewhat under control. I’ve had a pain when swallowing for about 2 years but was checked by ENT 18 months ago who saw nothing concerning.
About 2 months ago I got the worst sore throat I’ve ever had and worse pain when swallowing. I was referred for an urgent gastroscope to check my hernia which they reported seeing nothing suspicious but recommended and urgent ENT referral as all symptoms seemed to be in my throat.
The referral was done on a Friday evening and I had a telephone consultation on the Monday. Hospital called Wednesday and asked me to come in for an ultrasound on neck which reported nothing suspicious. Consultant app booked for the next day and taking one look he said he’s moderately sure this is tonsil cancer. He took 3 biopsies right then as one tonsil was larger than the other which is the side of my pain. He said that even if the biopsies come back ok he is still doing a full tonsillectomy as he doesn’t like the look of it and would be concerned the biopsy missed something. I have an urgent CT scan and MRI already booked over the next week. I am terrified of a GA.
I’ve unfortunately had many 2WW referrals in my life and have been fortunate they have all been fine so when he looked concerned I felt my life turn upside down.
I’m not really sure what I’m looking for. Maybe some coping mechanisms to get through the next few weeks wait. I can’t even relax if by some miracle the biopsy comes back ok because of what the consultant said. However, I am so grateful he is being so thorough. I also know I do not have HPV because of a recent smear so that makes things worse. Trying my hardest to stay off Google but I do have health anxiety so that’s a struggle.
Anyways, if you read all this I appreciate it and I wish you all the best.
Hi SS19835e12fd
Welcome but sorry to see you here. Don’t apologise. We have all been where you are and it’s really helpful have have the support many can offer here.
It sounds like your consultant is on the ball and things are moving fast. All you can do is keep doing normal life and the things you love too. Get out and about and keep busy. Dont look for reassurance on Google. There is none.
I also know I do not have HPV because of a recent smear so that makes things worse.
It doesn’t work that way. Genital HPV has little to do with oropharyngeal. My base of tongue cancer was HPV positive ( 80% of oropharyngeal cancer is) but my smear negative.
As you have likely discovered HPV driven throat cancer has an excellent prognosis. I am chasing 7 years now.
A word of warning. Don’t worry about the GA. The theatre staff and anaesthetist can keep you alive standing on their heads. You will get a thorough pre op to make sure all is good. Tonsillectomy in the adult is pretty painful for two weeks post op so make sure you are armed to the teeth with enough analgesia when you are discharged. Good luck. Stay with us … we’ve got you
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Thank you Dani. I can’t tell you how much your message means to me.
My plan is to stay off Google completely. I know it won’t make me feel any better anyway. Only worse and that’s not what I need right now.
Thank you also for the info on HPV. Just proved the wrong info I’ve got off the internet!
The reassurance on GA also means a lot. I’ve had a couple when I was younger and sedation since with no issues thankfully. I think it’s just my mind spiralling. Glass half empty I suppose. Will try my hardest to get out of the house tomorrow and do something I enjoy.
I’m so pleased to read you are nearing 7 years. And thank you once again. Already feel slightly lighter just writing it down and having someone to talk to.
Hi
I was 38 when diagnosed and, like you, there was a suspicion it was in my right tonsil as it was bigger than my left. I already knew that I had cancer as it presented in my lymph node on my neck.
They tried to biopsy my tonsil in the clinic but the samples they took came back inconclusive. Thankfully they went ahead with the tonsillectomy and they found it in there.
I’m a year down the line from my surgeries now and doing fine, living as normal as life as I was before.
keep us posted with your progress and yes, stay off of google and the likes.
ask away with any questions
chris
Hi
just to confirm like Dani my tonsil cancer was HPV postive I too had a routine smear during diagnose it was my 5 years one that too was HPV negative. Orapharangeal hpv cancer as little to do wit( HPV gynaecology.
just keep off d rgoogke. Yiur consultants on the ball. In 7 years post chemo radiotherapy and living a good life. We’re all happy to help the waiting’s tge worst. Try nit to stress re GA i had one and I took it in m6nstruce it wa she onky waybthe6 coukd explore so be it
hugs Hazel
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Hi Chris,
Thanks for reply and really glad to hear you’re doing well.
I will definitely update and thanks for the offer of questions.
I’m trying to stay positive that my lymph nodes all look completely normal in my neck. Got my CT scan tomorrow. Never had one before but have had 3 MRI’s so sure I’ll be ok.
Thanks again!
Thanks for your kind reply Hazel. Definitely puts my mind much more at ease with HPV!
My consultant is definitely on the ball and I’m so grateful. So glad he could do a biopsy before I even left the room. Never gave me chance to stress about it and as much as it wasn’t the most pleasant thing it was fine on the whole.
So glad to hear you’re doing well and thanks again for the reply.
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