Hello everyone, my husband's appearance has changed so much after treatment. Is is normal. I find it hard to adapt. Looking at pictures we only took a few months ago on a trip away, i am asking myself where is this man? Now he looks so much older and fragile. Will he get some of his old looks back?
Hi MEKKIE
Welcome to our little community.
What treatment did your husband have? It reads like he is not long out of it. If you put some details in your profile it would help us help you with the right answer.
I am six years clear. It was a good six months before I started looking more like my old self and you couldn’t tell by a year.
RT and CRT are a huge assault on the system and I must say I looked pretty haggard for a while.
Don’t worry. Your man will be back
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
He did loose 15+kg in a matter of 3weeks, pretty much in the last 3wks of treatment,when side effects start kicking in aswell
but for him to change in looks so much is hard to take.
Yes. It’s like watching your partner age ten years. I promise he will be back.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Is it down to weight loss do you think?
Not entirely. I didn’t lose much But still looked wiped out and exhausted.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Yes he's got a PEG fitted,just difficult to get him taking the food he should as he is still in and of sleep
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