Hi
So i saw my oncologist the other day for the first time and to be honest it was an eye opener to say the least to what's about to come for me.
Treatment starts 10th March for lymph node cancer
I wasn't concerned too much about the actual 6 weeks treatment but he reeled off the after effects of the treatment especially after week 3 of treatment. Really bad sore throat , can't eat normally , tiredness , feed tube etc
He said also some of the side effects may be permanent such as the taste of food may not come back , saliva glands not working, hearing loss . Also recovery may take 1 - 3 years at least. I really wasn't expecting all of this to be honest... Is it really as bad as it's going to be for me?
I know all this treatment is to keep me alive and I'm really thankful of this but just fearful of the long recovery.
Hi Dave
Try not to dwell too much on what you were told. We are always given a worst case scenario and nobody gets all the side effects.
This is a generalisation but there is a commonality
4 week's mouth and throat really painful. Too painful to swallow. Most of us are tube fed. I was fed by nasogastric tube for 8 weeks.
The 2/3 weeks after treatment end is the worst. I slept most of the time
We tend to feel better at 6 weeks and 12 weeks turn a real corner. I could eat soft food by then.
I wasn’t happy with eating till 6 months though taste was still subdued. Appetite nil so ate to live
By 1 year I was more my old self.
Saliva started improving after the sticky mucous went.
You have to look after your teeth because saliva production is never enough to protect your teeth but it’s acceptable.
Are you having g chemotherapy? That’s the treatment that can cause hearing loss so you need to tell your team if you are getting tinnitus. The regime can be changed.
Having said that I do have high end hearing loss as my cochlea was hit by RT.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Yes I'm having chemo as well
That will likely be Cisplatin which is ototoxic. It can be changed to Carboplatin which is less so
I'm very well and many years down the line. Recovery is slow at first but most of us come out relatively unscathed.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Dave
Age 68 at diagnosis
T2N1M0 Tonsil cancer HPV16+.....finished Chemoradio in June 2023
The treatment is harsh no other way of putting it, though some tolerate the ChemoRadioTherapy better than others.... my taste and appetite disappeared during weeks 2-3 of treatment, mouth and throat ulcers were problematic but well controlled by pain meds....do not suffer in silence ask for whatever meds you need and get a good supply including laxatives.....PEG feeding tube was a life saver....
Sept 2023 brought about a great deal of improvement, PEG taken out, eating better....October 2023 playing sport....swimming....November 2023 went to Tenerife....taste and appetite now about 90%....chicken Tikka for dinner tonight followed by Christmas cake for pud...there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Peter
Hi welcome to
our small group. I too had lymph node involvement and primary in tonsil. I had 35 radiotherapy and 2 of a 3 planned chemo cisplatin. I’m 6.5 years post treatment and living a good life.
Treatments hard I was 61 when diagnosed but I did it so can you. .
my 3 rd chemo was cancelled after discussing with oncologist. It’s not unusual for us not to have all chemo the chemo makes our cancers more receptive to radiotherapy. It’s the radiotherapy that’s the main course of treatment
we are told all the possible side effects but it’s rare to get all of them. I’m left with dry mouth at night and no tolerance to spicy food small price to pay.
If offered a feeding tube I advise to take it my ng tube was fitted end if week 3 it was my lifesaver enabled me to make a good recovery.
my blog below might help
Any questions just ask we’re a friendly bunch.
hazel x
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Hi yes Cisplatin , so did you cope with feed tube ok and what type of foods did you have?
How did you cope with dry mouth and sore throat and choking ?
Feeding tube didn’t bother me. It was ok
Feed was Fortisips provided by hospital. I drip fed overnight by pump. Left the day free to stay human and sane unencumbered by repeated feeding at intervals
Dry mouth. A pocket water spray is useful. There is a whole range of mouthwashes and saliva substitutes to try. Your speech and language team will point you in the right direction and likely others here will tell you what they used.
Sore throat. Morphine.
Choking. I didn’t choke. No problems there.
Take it day by day. You’ll be fine.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Thank you so much for advice and help, all this info is really helping before treatment starts. I can't thank you enough ,
I don't want to bombard you with questions but if there's anything else you might think will help me i will appreciate it
Take care , Dave
Same here
im end March to start
i need teeth out
i was told radiation is main treatment therefore I’m opting out of chemo
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