I'm waiting for a date for my treatment to start. I feel so scared and tired . My whole body hurts with arthritis pain and throat/ear pain. I keep thinking cancer has spread. Just the thought of all the treatment makes me feel awful. Is this normal to worry like this.
Hi Therese. The waiting’s the worst part . Your brain goes into overdrive. Try to keep busy keep off Dr Google. Tell us a little more about your diagnosis we are all happy to help if we can.
Take everything one day at a time and try not to think sbout spreading its rare for our type of cancers to metastases.
Hugs Hazel x
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
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It is absolutely normal to worry about things Therese. It’s a huge relief once you have a diagnosis and your treatment actually begins, and that shouldn’t be far away. Please use people in here to try to keep things in perspective and to help you through this very difficult time. Any question is a good question. We are all behind you
Is this normal to worry like this.
Hi Therese and welcome.
We are a friendly bunch and there is a wealth of experience here and all of us have sat and stewed and worried our way through early and late days. the others are right. Once you start you get through day by day and do it.
If you have time put a short biography in your profile. Tell us about yourself and your diagnosis and treatment if you can. it helps us answer your questions in the future without you having to repeat yourself. We can simply refer back, quickly to your history. Have a look at mine for a start....which I must update....by clicking on my name
The treatment is tough but doable. I have a friend who has rheumatoid arthritis and is on all sorts of drugs for it. She managed radiotherapy for tongue cancer and got through it. So will you.
Hugs
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
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