Terminal cancer

Hi LH1

I am so sorry for what your mum is suffering from its so unfair. . It sounds as if you are doing an amazing job trying to  be together but you do need a bit of an outlet your self to enable you to cope

Is there anyone outside the family you can talk to as it’s sometimes hard talking to family as u are trying to protect them  (may be a good friend).

I am going though the same my self but I am the person with terminal cancer.

what part of the country do you live in.

sending hugs

the beach 

Hi LH. So sorry you and the family are faced with this situation. There are a few members here in this group who have nursed close relatives through. They may pop on shortly to lend a hand PFJTHS and LindaWT spring to mind. 
There are also some other groups that might help 

https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_experiences/living-with-incurable-cancer-forum

And this group 

https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_experiences/supporting-someone-with-incurable-cancer-forum

best wishes 

Hi LH1

It really does suck.  I had the same with my mother and uncle, both of whom I was primary carer for.  Here or one of the other forums is a good place to offload in a place where nobody will judge you for the decisions you make.  Personally I think you have the right approach in doing the very best for her to make her life as good as possible.

There are some real practical issues that you may wish to consider at this stage that will help you in her last phases and beyond when she is gone.  Feel free to message me as I went thought his most recently during covid and am happy to give some pointers if that helps.

Welcome Beach from me too. I see you’ve popped on from another group. It’s good to see you here too though I am truly sorry you’re dealing with this. I hope you have the family support which makes so much difference.