Hi Folks,
I don't often post, so apologies if this has been raised before. If not, I hope it might help.
My husband was diagnosed with tonsil cancer in 2019 - T3N2b/1 (TNM7/8)M0 and received chemo/radiotherapy treatment. Thankfully, he got his all clear last August, but he still has a couple of side effects of the treatment, the worst of which is his inability to produce saliva. It is particularly bad at night in bed - his mouth is so dry he feels as if he is choking and of course there has been nights where sleep is minimal and we are both exhausted the next day.
However, completely by accident (thanks to Covid restrictions I was early for an appointment and went into a chemist to kill time), I found a product called Xylimelts, which is a small tablet he puts in his mouth at night. The tablet dissolves and coats his mouth, and he now gets to sleep. We were lucky enough to go on holiday to Greece last month and the mouth dryness was his biggest fear, but these little tablets helped so much at night and we managed to have a great holiday.
Best Wishes,
Tracy
Hi. Thanks for replying. My husband used Biotene but it ended up not of very much use to him - the dryness was so bad he had an awful cough (which is apparently normal), and so night time was a really big issue. We also found Biotene difficult to get at that time.
After having his feeding tube removed and moved back to food, eating wise, he got fed up with water, because at times water was a struggle for him so he used full fat milk because it is a thicker liquid and it also helped with gaining weight again. I also bought a bottle of Crusha and vanilla ice cream for making milk shakes because fizzy drinks were the drinks from hell (but that is starting to change). He also uses mayonnaise with food and one of the things he started to use was sweet chilli sauce, sometimes mixed with mayo as it takes the heat out the chilli, but still gives flavour. I found myself making quite a lot of thick gravy for him, which still really helps for chicken and meat. He also breaks his food down into small pieces. I found that soups were his saviour too, so for a time I made loads of different soup so that he didn't get bored. Chicken & Sweetcorn soup was easy for him to eat.
I've found that it's very much a 'try it and see' process, so one thing we say is 'Keep Pushing' because I still see some form of change in the condition 14 months after his 'all clear', so hang in there. I won't lie, it's a difficult journey. If I can think of anything else I will post it.
Have a good day!
Hi, Thanks for the information, I've just had my feeding tube removed and therefore need to make the effort to eat, I'm also using fortisip drinks to increase my calorie intake as I've lost quite a lot of weight. Looks like I'll have to experiment and find out what works best. All the best.
Add tinned peaches in cream and poached eggs to Tracy’s list. Slippery and easy to slide down
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
I've just received my first box of Xylimelts. I don't have any real problems at night but, hoping they help during the day with the odd food I still struggle to eat a lot of-meat. Fingers crossed. I bought them via Amazon but, I have just stumbled across a charity hope2sleep (in Hull) that look like they could be slightly cheaper than I paid although I didn't look at PnP fees etc.
Hi Loftyboy. Another food thing you could try is Ambrosia creamed rice. You can get individual pots of these, or tinned custard. These might help if you want something sweet.
Tracy
Hi Piya10. If it’s any consolation, my husband still struggles to eat red meat. No matter what way I’ve cooked it he can’t manage to eat it, so I’m hoping that may change with time. Lamb he can eat if cooked very soft and chicken he eats with lots of gravy.
Best Wishes
Tracy
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