Chemo

Hi ..Sorry to hear about your Dad’s situation.

From our experience my husband always had the final say on accepting any treatment that was offered to him ..We as a family discussed matters with his medical team but the final decision was always his and the only one accepted by his consultant /oncologist .

I’m assuming your Dad is of sound mind and is capable of making his own decisions and there isn’t anyone who has health and welfare power of attorney over him .

regards J 

Thank you for your reply . Yes he is of sound mins but he worrying about us so much I'm worried   If we were to get upset he may agree to treatment for us and I want him to do it only if it's what he wants . Although we are in shock we understand it would be just be for palliative care but I worry my sister will push for treatment bless her  and dad  will do it for her . I'm really hoping that consultant will see that and encourage my dad to just think of himself and my mum xx

I’m sure the consultant and your Dad will come to a mutual decision on what treatment is right for your Dad. ..

Hope all goes well

regards J 

Thank you so much xx