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Hello Wavey

I am so sorry to read your post and also to read about the devastating news your husband has received. I have noticed that the diagnosis is causing you both some personal issues. I see you are a member of the Oesophageal Cancer forum. can I suggest you join

Carers only forum and Emotional support forum where you may find some extra support from the members there.

You can just click the links I have provided to go to the forums and then just need to click the "Click to join2 banner".

I hope this helps - if there is anything else I can do for you please don't hesitate to contact me. I hope the results you are waiting for come back with a positive result.

Best wishes - Brian.

Hi wavey, there no cure for the sadness your feeling ok

None unfortunately. This type of news devastated your world. I've just had my op but at least I could have on. Maybe something like radiotherapy or immunotherapy would be possible but I expect you've discussed these.

Lots of hugs

Geo.

Wavey

I am so sorry to hear your situation with your husband . 

The feelings you have are natural because of your loved one 

Their is help professionally and from this forum but i know it will not help your pain seeing your husband go through this 

But dont forget he will ne feeling the same as you thinking of what he is putting you through.  

I was the same with my wife when we was told about my cancer  and looking into her eyes and seeing her pain worrying about me 

Use the community champions for help and advice,  your GP service 

You are both in my prayers and thoughts . Stay strong for each other xx

Hey Geo. Hope you recovery journey has started well. I know its an unpleasant op but you will get better. 

We are waiting for Mondays MDT meeting to find out if it's operative or palliative care. He's T3 N2 M0 so we are so hoping it is caught in time.

What was your journey to the op like?

Wish you all the best xxxx

Hi Wavey.

Thanks for your message. I was T3N1M0.

The op I didn't know much about but quite a lot of additions made in between and a few bits since.

Good luck to you too.

Best regards

Geo