Hi my hubby has been diagnosed with gullet cancer three weeks ago he has been struggling for while to swollow but we thought it was a blockage so we were shocked. My hubby taking it in his stride and I'm doing my best but terrible trying sleep at night. I fill my day looking after him and doing everything that needs doing but night time my head don't switch off. He has had PET scan and other tests which will determine what they can do so hopefully we should know next week
Hi Mduck, sorry to hear about your husband. You must try and remain positive, although I know it's difficult. Once your husband has the staging results you will both have a clearer picture of the path ahead. Good luck and kind regards, and please keep us updated and ask anything you want. Frank.
Hello Mduck,
I understand the shock, and difficulties you are going through, I am so sorry to read that your Husband has been diagnosed with Gullet cancer, my own husband was diagnosed in May 2020.
You are very welcome here and you will find many people who will have personal knowledge of emotionally and physically dealing with OC, and those like me who are standing on the outside looking in... so there is a wealth of knowledge within this forum and on the site that can be tapped into.
The waiting on results is difficult, but as Frank has mentioned please try to think positive, be aware that the treatment for this diagnosis has come on leaps and bounds through the past few years, and the PET scan will give you full understanding of next steps.
I don't have any sleep tips, other than to say, we all worry, we all think the worse, but here, in this forum you have support.. we are here for you.
Should you husband want to talk through anything, he is able to call the Macmillan helpline - times and phone number are in my signature below.
Stay strong, for each other, you will both need support to get through this.
Lowe'
Thank you for replying I think it helps knowing we are not the only people going through this and hopei we will know more after staging they have told us the two options depending on how advanced cancer is thank you x
I miss my man so much lost him January this year he could have died Christmas but fought on till 10th January. Im 68 not remotely looking forward to Christmas just reliving last year over and over. I feel so dead inside and lonely i seem to have got worse over last few weeks. Im on my own this Christmas and really wish i could just hibernate till its over .i dont even think im going put tree up.i know life goes on but how im not normally a negative person but cant look forward i really dont want to feel like this i dont know if there anyone who feels same as me x
Thank you Frank
I miss my man so much lost him January this year he could have died Christmas but fought on till 10th January. Im 68 not remotely looking forward to Christmas just reliving last year over and over. I feel so dead inside and lonely i seem to have got worse over last few weeks. Im on my own this Christmas and really wish i could just hibernate till its over .i dont even think im going put tree up.i know life goes on but how im not normally a negative person but cant look forward i really dont want to feel like this i dont know if there anyone who feels same as me x
Hi, I am just ahead of you I had the Pet-ct scan and it took me a couple of weeks to decide what course of treatment I want. I decided on the operation to remove the cancer. I am 75 years old and doctors say I am a good candidate for this surgery. I hope the scan answers all the questions, I hadto have a one day surgery for the doctors to see into the abdomen cavity as the pet scan can't see this. Mine was all clear so chemo starts this week and the surgery in the new year. Like you my partner worries a lot and it has been difficult to get her to act as normal and she is now starting to get back into routine. I trust the doctors and look forward to the Spring when I have turned the corner.
He has his scan tomorrow keep in touch hope everything goes well for you
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