my husband had or rather still has oesophageal stage 3 but went through all chemo hell on and off for him down to op went in and found a hidden tumour lower bowl removed but meant no op could be done just removed tumour and then hernia where it was hidden

now been on autoimmune treatment 6 chemo but its just that he often moody so tired all the time this is just 3 chemo treatment he sleeps most time energy none eating less some days ie small cereal/ small burger mcs/ a apple pie  // then apple crumble small amount lots of custard that's all a good day other days not so good , it just you keep trying to get him to do things and get mouthful for asking!! he does want keep going because well to be honest he felt better on normal chemo with it really bad side effects some days he on loo badly what with wind and  chronic burping all day he gets really down with it AND now he covered in a rash inching one all over got pertain and creams over counters trying to get him to phone the nurse is fear he be kept in as he terrified of hospitals just dont know where to turn to his worry i know is bills i use to work but lost job so only income coming in is pension and ssp applied for universal credit but that's  if he over retirement age I'm not but every time we ask would it better he gave up ssp and claim others because pip told he over retire age unless you have p50 form stating your terminal you cant get nout!!. what i want to know when apply for pip you could get it if your terminal but you need the doctor to put it on form well i want to know how hell are you suppose to know if its works Afterall with pip you terminal has to a round 12 months how he  going know oh yes scans etc but sadly it fails and 3-4 months u live no help then he wants it now!!! SO I WANT TO KNOW THATS HOW HE SEE IT IF HE DIDNT AGREE TO DO AUTOUIMUMME TREATMENT HE HAVE PIP BUT because it would be in writing how do get the doctors to give you that on Letter as is 1 of reason he give it up THATS how he feels with stress of chemo side effects lack help in finances we been to jca office 4 times this week alone filling 1 form after another    its terrifying for me he needs me at home ive applied caring allowance again that's a if . AS U read he feeling are like i be better off with out him i dont know what way to turn any more