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That sounds like very promising news!  Good luck for your next phase and as Sarah said, do keep in touch and let us know how you get on xxx

Hi Julie.

Sorry to jump on this post but I would like to know how you're coping now..a whole month after treatment? I finished on Thursday 31/03 with final brachy. Im dosed with flu and couldn't get out of bed yesterday. Rang my gp who said it's normal to pick up all the bugs n germs going round and to try stay away from public places etc. I just feel miserable and quite isolated and if I'm honest I'm so depressed it's the fatigue that's hard to deal with. Have you had any of this? 

Thanks xx

Hi Angela.  I'm so sorry to hear that you got the flu on top of everything else.  It must feel that your body's taken quite a relentless battering.  I caught a cold after treatment and it does knock you for six.  I know exactly what you mean about feeling isolated and I still wear my mask in public places.  I did feel fatigue in the first week or so after treatment.  I think the adrenalin that keeps us going through treatment finally subsides and fatigue then takes over.  I feel so much better now although I still do have a non-bloody discharge which they say is perfectly normal.  So constantly having to wear pads is getting a bit wearing, not to say expensive!  Also I faced my fear with the dilators for the first time on Monday and tried the smallest one even though they said to start with the next size up.  I said I would first use the smallest to get used to the procedure.  I intend to move to the next size next week.  Eeh there's never a dull moment is there with this?  I really hope things improve for you as your flu gets better but it's the last thing you need right now. I do have the odd spell of depression and anxiety but try to kick it into touch as best I can, but then I haven't got the flu to cope with on top of everything else.  Please keep us posted and I really hope you're feeling better soon.  Hugs xxx

Oh Julie I also have a non bloody discharge and I'm so glad to hear it's normal!! Fever broke on wed night..last I checked b4 my eyes closed it ws 38.1..much better today and I'm Gona risk going for  a game of bingo with my friend tonight I think living alone dosent help with the isolation iv been a widow for 10 years so you'd think I'd be used to it but sadly no..and I hate asking my family and friends all the time. Once I get a car on the road il have my independence back and I'm sure that will help greatly!  Yesterday my GP gave me another 3 month sickline. So I can breathe without worrying about going back to wrk for a while. I don't think il be ready for a long time. Thanks for the reassurance, once again I'm so grateful for this forum and all you lovely ladies xx

Morning Angela

Glad you’re getting over your flu-a bingo night will be just the thing to give you a boost I think, especially if you win! And it’s good to know you don’t have the pressure of returning to work. Hopefully the weather will start to improve and you can get out, even sitting in the garden is something I enjoy. 

I’m lucky in that I don’t live by myself, but I do spend a huge amount of my time alone and never see anyone, so I understand how isolating that feels. I’m trying to keep busy with a big spring clean and de clutter to help pass the time! 

Sarah xx

Yes Sarah I agree that sitting in my garden when the weather is better will be good for mental health also I can't wait to have the energy to spring clean and do few odd jobs around the house with my music blasting lol ..it sounds a wee bit like heaven  xx

Morning Julie

Good to hear from you. More than 2 years after my surgery I still need a panty liner 24/7. I just buy the cheapie ones from Asda, but would love even a single day of not needing them! Well done for starting with the dilators-I know it’s not the most pleasant experience, so I can’t say I miss them at all-gave a little cheer to myself when they went in the bin!

Keep smiling

Sarah xx

I’ve got the radio on today, but usually it’s something like Madonna blaring out-empty house next door so I don’t feel guilty! Too cold to be in the garden but it was lovely sitting out a couple of weeks ago when it was actually quite pleasant. I feel much better in myself when I can sit in the sun-think I should live in a warmer country! 

Sarah xx

Yes I enjoyed the good weather a while back Sarah..it's was so uplifting..just watching people go past xx

I am so pleased that you sound to be feeling a little better.  I don't live alone and I don't like to be alone.  I would have to get a dog if I was on my own!!  It would be great for you to have a car and be mobile again.  Also very glad that you got another sick note, that is one less worry.  Roll on summer, I think the sun is so healing xxx