Hey everyone, i got a call on monday night to tell me i had cervical cancer. Im on my own with 2 sons 9 yrs old a 1 years old. Im so scared for them. The doctors were going for a meeting today about a plan for me and i have not heard back yet im really anxious. Any tips on how not to think the worst x
Carlak90 awe yeah still don't know how they made that mistake...so they won't of got all the tuma out...had it gone in you're lymodes...Don't think it will spread but can see why you're worried..hope you have put a complete in putting you thr all this no wonder ya don't sleep much..I just can't believe it xxx
It hadnt gone into lymphnodes to start with when it was just the tumour, bur since they cut it yes! I havent out a complaint in, everyone is telling me to tho! Such a nightmare rhe stress of all this! How old are u if u dont mind me asking, and do u have any kids x
I'm 57 2 daughter's...did they get all the tuma out what a stressful time don't think it will spread anymore b4 you're treatment..you will be just wanting it to start..how may children have you got xxx
No they didnt get it all as they just thought it was fibroid so cut most of it and didnt worry about remaining bits! 31, 2 boys, 10 and 19months x
I can't get my head round it...so can't imagine how you're feeling its just not rite...hope the treatment is to bad for you having a baby...I suppose you will have help tho xxx
You should put in a complaint for sure.
Sarah xx
Not sure what you mean here Nahla? Chemoradiation will result in menopause.
Sarah xx
Ye i suppose ill be really tired, i dont have much help to be honest. Im in my own, my mum will do what she can but works aswell and so do friends.
I didnt know i would go threw menopause with this treatment? I knew i couldnt have more kids but no1 told me about this! So what happens then x
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