Am l the only one that's is pushing there partner away because of the unknown after treatment. After all why would someone stay when iam angry , side effects could mean we have no sex life or a very different one . Every since this journey began 8 weeks ago with test I've not gone near him as l feel damage , it's not right no more . Or am l just going mad x
Hi and welcome to the online community
I'm very sorry to hear how having been diagnosed with cancer is affecting your relationship with your partner.
Everyone reacts differently to a cancer diagnosis and there's no right or wrong way to feel. You might like to take a look through this information from Macmillan on coping with your emotions as it gives positive steps to help you cope.
You might also find it helpful to talk to someone on the Support Line about how you're feeling. It's free to call on 0808 808 0000 and they are available every day from 8am to 8pm.
Wishing you all the best with your treatment
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