Moods all over the place

Hi Glittery,

Just wanted to reply as nobody else has yet. My wife was just diagnosed as stage 4 (lesions in 4 spinal vertebrae) and is awaiting a bone biopsy and then a treatment plan. I'm surprised you aren't on any meds for the bone specifically (Bisphosphonates) which help to keep them strong, and rebuild the damage done by the cancer.

My wife is strangely calm about everything, it's me that's the mess! I have Asperger's too and really dislike change.

Anyway, just reading your profile has given me hope, dx 2017 and still posting on here!

I'm trying to focus on the fact that new treatments are coming out all the time, and the longer you can make it, the greater the chance that there will be a breakthrough. 

Sometimes I think that our bodies just need a good old cry to release all the pent up feelings. Your not an emotional wreck, you're having a perfectly normal reaction to a very shitty situation. It might be worth talking to your GP, as there maybe be medications that might help you feel a bit better.

What river do you have your boat on? We're luckily enough to live near the Thames and have a little trailer-sailor. I find being on the river so soothing - I just wish the weather would work with me!

All the best,

Andy

Hi Andy, sorry to hear about your wife. I  can really relate to disliking change.  My husband did a lot of research relating to diet  and cancer, I think he found doing so helpful. The doctors have consistently offered me bisphosphates I've chosen not to have such.

We're on the boat in the Midlands, husband loves the boat, it has a classic engine We've had quite a few thunderstorms recently.