My wife’s side effects

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Hi, I know that we are not on our own on this site. I have read through some very sad cases on the community chat forum and I’m hoping that we can benefit from other people who are going through this nightmare. 
My wife was diagnosed with primary breast cancer 10 years ago. On the very day of her receiving her 5 year all clear, she developed secondary bone cancer. After a 14 hour life saving surgery, we have been lucky enough to have survived a further 5 years. I feel that we have been blessed to have been given this length of time.. Last August we were dealt a further blow that the disease had spread to her liver.. This has obviously devastated the whole family. We have had further radiotherapy sessions, CT scans, MRI & Bone scans. There has been a huge change to our lives as I’m sure everybody who has suffered from this dreadful disease. Chemotherapy, has resulted in weight loss, zero appetite and the current side effect is water retention. The water retention is a huge one for her to deal with at the moment. Please may I ask if anybody else has been through this side effect. It has resulted in her not being able to walk without me by her side as she has no control or strength because of the amount of water retention. Our oncologist has no answer to why this has developed to the extent that it has. It could possibly be to do with her liver function ? Has anybody else on the forum come across this kind of side effect ? If so, I would be so grateful if I could receive some positive feed back that might help us to deal with this situation we find ourselves in.

Thanks for reading my War & Peace experience and god bless everyone who might be going through this life changing nightmare xxxx

  • Hi  I am so sorry your wife and your family are going through this for a third time. I can't imagine how hard it must be.

    I haven't been through similar but wanted to respond to you so I could bump your post back up to the top of the list incase this time someone who has might be on the forum and see it reply to you.

    You might have more luck finding people who have gone through similar if you post on the chemotherapy website if this is a side effect of chemo CLICK HERE.  

    You can also post on the Breast Cancer forum as opposed to secondary breast cancer as that one tends to be very active with many more people on there CLICK HERE

    I wish you and your wife all the best and pray that she beats cancer a third and final time.

  • thank you for sharing what you, your wife and your family are going through. I was very sorry to read how difficult this has been.

    the water retention one is hard, have you spoken to the consultant to see what they’d suggest and if they could recommend the milkshakes if your wife’s appetite is still low (although the milkshakes are not pleasant).

    turning back to the water retention - Is your wife able to undertake gentle exercise and if not, could she be given gentle deep tissue massages?