Deciding whether to have a Mastectomy

Hello,  did the consultant mention the possibility of a lumpectomy followed by radiation?  I don’t know what health conditions your Mum has and I certainly know that it is not an easy decision.  
I was 71 when diagnosed and finally ended up having bilateral lumpectomies with radiation to both breasts and have been on anastrazole for 3 1/2 years so 1 1/2 years to go.  I was fit and healthy with no chronic illnesses.  
Breast cancer has challenges at every age.  
Wish your Mum the best.  

Hi not sure how much help this will be, but I had a double mastectomy and lymph node check about 5 years ago. It was relatively straightforward, and I didn't need drains. I stayed in for, I think, just one night. Don't remember it as being painful, although I took all the offered painkillers.  I do recommend doing all the post op exercises. I did, and I have very good arm reach. I am in my 70s. My experience was influenced by covid, but read my profile if you want. 

I wish your mum all the very best x