Hi!
Not really sure where to start but I’ll give it a go. My biological mother just passed away from what we believe was breast cancer. Difficult to know for sure as I was adopted at age 8 and haven’t spoken to her since but judging by her social media, that’s what it was. She was only 36 years old- I think she had a mutated BRCA gene, which could well have been passed on to me. I’m now 19 and have had a lump in my breast for a couple of years now, but was told to just monitor it over time. It’s noticeably bigger now, though has all the physical traits of fibroadenoma am absolutely scared sick. It measures probably about 5cm across.
I’ve always had the most horrific fear of needles and I’m aware that to know for sure it’s not cancer I’ll need a biopsy of some sort. Problem is I’m so scared of needles and one in my breast is even worse. I’m also scared of what will happen if I do have cancer and the treatments that come with it.
Sorry if this is wasting anyones time but I just need to know honestly how painful the various types of biopsies are and how manageable they are overall.
thanks very much
Hello and you've come to the right place to share your fears. I've had biopsies on two occasions. The first time when recalled to clinic they gave me a local anaesthetic so a scratch less than a blood test and I felt nothing - they were biopsing 2 areas so took numerous samples. Second time was at another recall she just did it - only 1 sample and I can honestly say so quick I didn't feel it. There was a little click and done. The thought more scary than reality. I like to sing (in my head) when having tests etc. I give myself a target line to get to. It distracts me. My daughter terrified of needles found if told to wiggle toes on right foot then left she didn't panic for her travel vaccinations.
Have you had your clinic appointment date yet? You can also ask for gene testing I believe if your mother had the gene.
Good luck and let us know how you get on.
Thanks for your reply. Literally just found out circumstances of bio mums death so will make emergency GP appointment tomorrow to get a referral and will ask about genetic testing too. Really reassuring for the biopsies tho thanks so much- will update once GP has decided what to do. Currently worrying about having my boobs out in front of other people haha though I’d rather be safe than sorry
It’s ok to be scared of needles - many of us are. I tell everyone who has to give me any kind of treatment- But most of the fear is worse than the treatment! I got through it all - you will too. Xx
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