Diagnosed with Grade 1 Ductal Invasive Carcinoma

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Hello. I  am 56 and was diagnosed with BC in October which came as a shock as it was my first mammogram that picked it up. I had a lumpectomy and 2 lymph nodes removed 2 weeks ago and should get the results on 4th December.  

I am absolutely terrified for the future and struggling to cope with the psychological effect. One minute I feel positive and the next I am looking at funeral plans. 

I would really appreciate some tips on coping with these yo yo feelings. Even though I have a supportive family I still feel very alone on this journey. 

Sorry to be so negative and gloomy.

  • Hi there, 

    I am a little further along in my journey than you. I had my inital lumpectomy and lymph node procedure in Sept after being diagnosed with Grade 1 IDC. The worst part of all of this is the waiting for results, your mind will go everywhere and it’s hard to explain to the people around you. 
    The moment I sat in the consultants office to get the results of my surgery I was terrified. I had clear lymph nodes but needed another op to get clear margins. I should have felt elated at the clear nodes but I just felt numb. 
    I had my second op on Wednesday and it’s ok pan wise but I just feel so tired. My mind is still all over the place. It really is a tough slog mentally. 
    The best advice I can give is to try to be kind to yourself, rest when you can and try to ge out for a walk each day. 
    Have you any local centres you can go to? MacMillan or Maggies? 
    Hope all goes ok with the results x

  • Thank you for your reply. I am sorry you are going through this too. It is a mental slog. I am sending you lots of hugs and my best wishes for your recovery. Take care x