Hi I was diagnosed with “early treatable” breast cancer in December 2024 at the age of 47, I underwent a lumpectomy and axillary clearance in January and and I am part way through preventative chemotherapy ( which is rough) I’m finding it difficult to come to terms with my diagnosis and treatment but also because it’s “early treatable breast cancer “ which I am immensely thankful for tmy family and friends think i should be fine because “it could be much worse” and “ the chemo is only prevention you’ll be fine”
I don’t feel fine and don’t think I will ever be carefree again losing all my hair hasn’t helped my confidence is on the floor and I just feel lost
Hi Reynolds1,
Sorry you are going through this without much support for the reality of the disease. Cancer is cancer no matter what stage.
I like you had preventative chemo and lost my hair also. Cancer is tough the treatment is tough. The worst part is our heads, the what ifs the uncertainty. Even now I have returned to work and my hair is growing back. I still go straight to has the cancer spread for every ache or pain I probably wouldn't have given a second thought. The psychological change the anxiety is very real. Until you experience this I think it's difficult to understand.
You've done the right thing reaching out here, the macmillan nurses and cancer care are also great supports.
I wish you well with your treatment and recovery. Take the time to yourself, listen to your body and rest when you need it. I think people say you'll be fine because they don't know what else to say or to cover up their fears. Sending hugs xx
Thank you so much missmolly you’ve made so really good points I will take on board
I’m glad your treatment is over but wish the anxiety would disappear for you , although I know I will be the same
take care and thank you again for reaching out to me x
Take care. Be kind to yourself. Sending hugs xx
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