First Chemo today

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Hi, I am new to the group. I recently had a breast lumpectomy for triple negative breast cancer. Today I start my first chemotherapy. I struggle asking for help but here goes. What type of head wear is best after hair loss and where do I buy it from. Some of the scarves are quite expensive. I am not very good with fashion and self image. I am in my 60s and sourcing the best head gear is causing anxiety. Any advice?

  • Hi Cowsrus, I am 62 and bought my headwear from an online site called annabandana. I found their hats and headbands really comfortable and bought a variety of different colours. I also purchased a couple of wigs from a local shop, who secialise in wigs for cancer patients. They were really great in the shop and put me at ease straight away. Hope all goes well today with your first treatment. Xx

  • Thank you. I will look up the site.

  • Hi

    Like you my hair was one of many anxieties.  Does your hospital run any workshops to help with this? Guy's hospital does. The charity "Cancer Hair care " is also very helpful. They have u-tube videos etc.  Is there a "Maggies" unit near you. 

    They offer lots of advice both by telephone and face to face.

    Ask your BCN for advice about local services.

    There is so much out there and it is surprising what you learn.

    I used the cold cap and kept a lot of my hair. I had a wig on the NHS but never used it. 

    All the best

    Ricki

    ricki
  • I have lost most of my hair now, I bought a thin beanie type hat from Etsy for in the house. I really didn’t want one of the turban type scarf/hats as to me they scream chemo hair! I wear a woolly hat out and about as it’s winter and I have a wig which I have worn twice in 10 weeks, mostly for the grandchildren. I am 65 and losing my hair has been the worst bit Slight frown

  • You sound same as me. I am not worried about the hair loss. I tried the cold cap yesterday and 3 hours of a freezing head was too much. I will look on Etsy

  • I couldn’t tolerate the cold cap, the first time I tried it I had a blinding headache and threw up! Didn’t bother again!

  • I didnt throw up but at the end they said my scalp and forehead were very red. I had a headache ever since. You don't know what to expect on your first treatment and I know everybody is different. I am going to go without it next time.