Hi everyone, I was diagnosed yesterday and just feel so lost and scared
I don’t even know what to say :( I just really need to speak with people who understand
I’m 39, with 5 beautiful children - 3 still living at home. And a husband. But after the week from hell leading up to diagnosis he doesn’t know what to say to me anymore so it’s just silence - as my head spins and I’m spiralling scary thoughts.
I just feel so lonely
Hi Lauzloo, sorry to hear of how you're feeling. It sounds like you and your husband ate struggling so It's great that you've reached out here for support.
I was diagnosed last February 2024. I remember those early days as being so shocking and scary. It really did take time for everything to sink in. I began to feel more in control once I knew what my treatment plan was going to be.
I don't know how much information you have with your diagnosis but the process can sometimes take a little while, as you undergo all the tests so that your medical team can develop your treatment plan.
I encourage you to lean on trusted people in your life, use these forums and don't hold back on asking your medical team any questions you have.
Wishing you all the best with treatment. Sending all the hugs xox
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