Really struggling

Hi First time here

My heart goes out to you as this really is the most awful part of the whole process. Like you I really struggled after diagnosis, couldn’t sleep or eat, experienced a whole range of emotions, couldn’t work as kept breaking down, it was horrible. But, you are right, I guarantee you feel better when you know what is happening and when. 

Things that helped during this time were a couple of sessions of MacMillan counselling, definitely recommend this. Writing a daily journal also helped to process my thoughts and feelings, letting everything out onto paper. Although there were times I absolutely did not feel like it, I forced myself to exercise regularly which helped clear my head massively and I am convinced has helped with a straightforward recovery. 

It’s a really tough time, but things do get easier. Impossible to imagine now, I know, but there will come a time when this is all behind you. Sending love and best of luck with everything. x 

Thank you so much for your reassuring message. This forum is full of support & I’m so glad I found it, xx

Hi first time here,

Your thoughts and feelings are mirrored by all of us when we hear those words. 

I was the same I couldn't even say the word cancer aloud without breaking down. The waits are the worst once you have a treatment plan you will feel more in control. 

I was diagnosed May this year had my operation in June chemo July to Sep, radiotherapy in Oct. Now on Letrozole and to have 6 monthly bone infusions.

I am coming out the other side now. I like many others were where you are now. Once treatment starts it all goes pretty quickly. There are lots of treatments and research carried out on breast cancers with lots of treatments available.

I hope my journey offers you some comfort in hiw quickly things can move and there us light at the end of the tunnel.

I wish you well in your recovery and if you need to ask any other questions I'm happy to help if I can.

Also use the macmillan nurses and cancer care who are great supports also xx

Thank you, it all helps

As others have said, the waiting and uncertainty is the worst time, for me it certainly got easier once I had a plan. You might not be aware, but the lovely folks here at Macmillan run a daily helpline, for any of us to call and chat things through. You can reach them on 0800 808 0000 and they'll be happy to listen or provide advice and support. Best wishes 

I didn’t know about the helpline, thank you for letting me know

Hi First time here , just popping in with another welcoming hug. It’s such a shock to find out that you have cancer; like you I tried to focus on the positive aspects (caught early, very treatable etc) but it’s still shocking!! I’m now 6 years post diagnosis and still rattling around this site as it really is a great place for support and shared experiences. As others have said, it’s a horrible limbo stage which you’ll get through somehow and then things will become clearer as you get on with treatment. Sending love and a big virtual hug. HFxx

I’m hoping that as it’s been caught so very early I will just need surgery and some radiotherapy. Just very anxious at the moment.  Thanks for the hug, xx

Hi First time here, like you I was diagnosed through a routine mammogram. I had no idea anything was wrong. That can be a greater shock than if you go to the doctor knowing something is wrong. 

Please be gentle with yourself. It's a lot to cope with - but you don't have to do it all today, and you are not alone. Everyone here has an idea of what you're going through and we all support each other. 

My breast cancer was caught early and was very treatable, like yours. I had a lumpectomy and two lymph nodes removed nearly two years ago. I was borderline for needing chemotherapy, but thankfully didn't have to have it. I had 15 sessions of radiotherapy. 

I'm now on an aromatase inhibitor, Exemestane, which is one pill every day for 5 or 10 years. 

Good luck with your appointment tomorrow. Most people find things get easier once you know what the plan is. Thinking of you xx

Thank you. I had an ultrasound & breast examination when I was recalled after the routine mammogram, which showed no lumps/bumps.  The mammogram had shown microcalcification this time which wasn’t there three years ago at my last one. The area in question is 9mm and has shown cancerous cells, (I believe).  Just feel so sick & anxious. You ladies on here are amazing & seem so much braver than me