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HopeH 1 month ago

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I’m new to the community.

I didn’t know if I wanted to join or not, I still don’t really!

I was diagnosed back in June with breast cancer a big shock to say the least. it was going to be a lumpectomy but has ended up being a mastectomy. I had this 6 weeks ago and now wait to see the oncologist in the middle of November to discuss the next step…. chemo.

i am struggling with all of the waiting. I’m not sure how to feel or what to think. I’m trying to be positive and keep up beat as everyone tells you that’s what you need to do, I am trying….

well that’s me for now.

HopeH 1 month ago in reply to Classic secret

Thanks Classic Secret, you had a journey!

how are you now?

I will really try to think positive:-)

Bear and Tilly 20 days ago in reply to HopeH

Hi there. Sorry about the delayed reply.

If you go to the search button and type in "toxic positivity," a lot of references come up.

Go to "blogs" and click on that. Scroll down to about the fourth blog and you will find a blog by Dylan called "When good intentions hurt: Exploring Toxic positivity and conversations about cancer."

You can talk to the Macmillan nurses about anything. They're brilliant. I've asked them practical questions, such as how to look after my breast during radiotherapy. I've also spoken to them when I've felt stressed by the whole cancer thing and just wanted to talk to someone who would understand.

How are you getting on ? xx

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