Biopsy awaiting results

Hi LizA

Your quite right to tell them when results come in. It maybe you don't need to tell them anything.

And if you do you will have a clearer treatment plan of what needs to happen.

When I told mine and I did it by text I couldn't say it out loud. They wanted answers to what was to happen treatment wise and I didn't have those answers so they had to wait for info also.

I wish you all the best and hopefully you find out either way soon. Be kind to yourself xx

The waiting is so tough. It’s a combination of waiting for lab results and also they may also discuss on a set weekly case discussion. In the same position as you so sending hugs

Hi everyone on here  

I completely understand your anxiety of the waiting. DO NOT DR GOOGLE - I was planning my funeral after doing that and it’s far from the case at the moment. There are so many different avenues for breast ‘disease’ - I use this word as it sounds a bit nicer than the other  

Once the results are in, they move! 

I got my biopsy results on 24/5, had bloods done the same day, echocardiogram on another day. 
oncologist appointment was 11/6, PICC line fitted the next day and I started chemo on the 17/6. 

I have received outstanding treatment in my area (Lancashire)! Trust the professionals. Your life is in their hands but they’ve got experience. They are doing this day in, day out. 

Stick to Macmillan’s website for info that you need. 

We aren’t alone as there are thousands who have lumps and don’t even know they have got them. I found mine and went to the docs straight away - measures at 5.5cm. I have kicked myself so many times of how did I miss this lump but our breasts are full of so many things.  (it was like the size of a lime!!). 
I can’t dwell on this and have to keep a positive mental attitude. 

It is not an easy journey but I have felt supported and monitored to survive this disease! 

I am 35 with a 12 year old daughter who is just finishing her first year in high school. I will do anything to survive this disease and so will you guys! 

Sending lots of hugs  

PS I understand the difficulty of telling people but you need to talk, however, some people I didn’t tell until after results because what is there to say? You have no answers to their questions which frustrates more. 

When you get results, tell the world because you may need support and it is good to talk. The more you keep to yourself, the worse it may be… you will also find that you’re not alone and others have been in the same position and hear positive stories!!

Ann-Marie xx

Hi Fell Knitter

Thanks for your message. I think I would find weekly appointments reassuring. At the moment I have got half way through a two week wait. Some of the time I can keep busy and distract my thoughts but then it's important to think about it too. I have found the Macmillan website really good to find out about things I need to know.

Wishing you good luck and sending hugs to you!

Thank you

I have had my results meeting now which unfortunately wasn’t what I wanted to hear but they had indicated where it was likely to go without being specific the day I had my initial tests  

Booked in for surgery on 19th July. Lumpectomy and removal of all lymph nodes. Shocked and scared but determined to get through treatment. Definitely radiotherapy and a decision to be made on chemo once that have checked out what they remove. 

based in East Lancashire. Cannot fault the speedy response I have had from NHS. 

Hi Fell Knitter,

I was in the same position as you four months ago and had a lumpectomy and lymph nodes removed, now just awaiting radiotherapy. I’m not to far from you, I live in Southport, Merseyside and my care has been exceptional from the beginning, including the after care - this week I was told I was clear.

I know it’s a little scary, but do give yourself a little time to let it sick in. You have made the first big step by finding the Macmillan site, also do visit your nearest Macmillan centre, a list is on here, or ring them on 0808 808 0000, they are superbly helpful and give you lots of great info, do walks, talks and lots more. Please also get a good support structure in place, family, friends, good work colleagues, I’ve lived on my own for nigh on forty years, but realised you can’t do this on your own. I also go for a short walk every day (British weather permitting) and do a daily diary, this is mega helpful, as it gets everything off your chest and out of your system. It is important during the day to keep yourself occupied, hobbies, interests etc., it stops you from dwelling on what is going on. You may also find it beneficial to listen to a meditation podcast, they really help you to relax especially when you are trying to get to sleep. I use one called ‘Go Gently’ by Christine Elizabeth Smith, it does a lot for me.

I know it’s hard sometimes, but try and keep as positive as you possibly can, have positive people around you and dump the negativity, above all, be kind to yourself - I promise you, you will get through this. You are never alone and can always come and chat to us shower in here.

Take care and big hugs.xxx

I'm sorry to hear that but glad you are having surgery soon. I feel the same as you, the NHS breat cancer treatment centre is really good here in Cornwall.

I was warned that I would definitely be having surgery and I found the Macmillan website really good when thinking of mastectomy and lumpectomy options. As you say, it's scary but I feel very determined to deal with it and to get through. My results are due on the 10th.

Hope your surgery goes smoothly and hope your family and friends help you to deal with it all.

Sending positive thoughts!

Xx

Hi Bambie

I am new too and in the same situation (have posted separately) - biopsy done Thursday, results next Wednesday and I am all alone in the world - no one to talk to about this and my stomach is still churning and my legs are jellified.  I don't know what mine is - they never suggested anything and despite being repeatedly asked if I had any questions, I just couldn't bring myself to ask what they thought - so I am in the dark.

I am heartened by the replies you have received and I pray to God that its nothing or at least something I can get over.

Lots of love and healing to you xx

Hi Liz the waiting and not knowing is the worst thing , i didnt sleep properly until i knew my results , but then when i had a plan of treatment and i could get my head around it all i started sleeping again. I decided not to tell my adult children anything until i had a treatment plan and that seemed to work as i felt i could answer all their questions xx

Thanks for replying, I feel so alone married but hardly any communication, trying to keep busy , can't find words to tell my adult sons one has learning difficulties.  No results yet . Hope your tests are all OK x