Hello,
My very dear friend has just been diagnosed with breast cancer. After first appointment we thought she would have a mastectomy and chemo but after PET scan she was told it had spread to her lungs (in a small way) and it was grade 3 triple negative breast cancer on the left hand side and in right hand side lymph nodes.
They have given her chemo tablets and have said they can treat it but they can't cure it. She won't be having surgery (it's not an option).
I suppose I’m looking for, anyone with the same diagnosis. Advice on if getting a second opinion is a good idea, it feels like surgery has to be an option.
Not that I don’t trust them it’s just she is only 40 with children and we NEED to know we have tried EVERYTHING.
And lastly any positive stories 
Thank you in advance 
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Hi Bix A Boo
Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear about your friend.
I was diagnosed with grade 3 triple negative breast cancer. The cancer was in my left breast and under my left armpit. After having chemo, surgery and radiotherapy I am now in remission.
It’s up to you both but you are entitled to get a second opinion if that what is what you want to get.
Wishing the both of you the best of luck with everything.
Best wishes
Daisy53
