Was diagnosed with BC few weeks ago . Finding it hard to change ,I normally am the one that’s doing everything for everyone. I find it real hard to think about me.
Hi Saal welcome to the forum and I am sorry to hear about what has been happening for you. It is incredibly difficult isnt it if you are the type of person who always thinks of others but time for a little selfishness and let others look after you now.
You are allowed time to think of you and focus on you and I dont think anyone that knows you would think anything bad about that if you did that.
Hi thank you They all say take time , take it easy but it is so hard. I have surgery end of the month so I need to listen to them cause I will have to take things easy. People say that good days are good and when days are bad don’t fight it .
tracy
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