Post Surgery Bra

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Hello, I am new here.

Firstly i would like to send big hugs and well wishes to all you brave warriors.

Since December I have been living in what can only be described as hell. I received a recall following routine mammogram. A biopsy, an MRI and a further biopsy later. I was diagnosed with early breast cancer. Grade 2 Invasive Ductal carcinoma. This week I had my surgery and sentinel Node biopsy. (This experience is another story). I was told to wear non wired bras at d8agnosis appointment. However...  my incision under my arm is where the top of the bra sits and I have an incision under the breast where my bra begins. What do I wear as means of support? The location of incision was never discussed so I didn't know what to expect. I Just though it would be at the side of the breast. I had a posterior tumor which was low down. That is all I was told. Surely I can't wear a bra which will be very sore and will irritate the wounds. I have had glue rather than stitches. 

Everything has happened soo quickly I am still trying to absorb amd come to terms of the reality of the last 4/5 weeks. (This experience is another story too). Knowing what would be suitable to wear was never considered. 

I am 3 days post op. I had day surgery and discharged after 2 hours. I havent spoken to anybody medical to ask. 

Hoping you can help. Best wishes and heart felt gratitude for any support xxx

  • Hi, so sorry to hear you've had to join the club, I had my surgery on 19th December and my scar is from armpit to the bottom of my right breast - about 10" in length.  I bought special post surgery bras but, to be honest, haven't worn them much as I've found a soft sports bra was more comfortable - you might find them useful? Or maybe just a soft piece of gauze tucked under your bra, over the stitches. 

    My diagnosis is similar to yours although, unfortunately a little further advanced as it's grade 3 invasive ductal carcinoma and I had to have 36 nodes removed. The past few months have been a bit of a nightmare, I had a screening mammogram in April that came back as ok, no problems found Thinking. I'm currently waiting for an appointment with the oncologist, the waiting is the worst bit for sure.

    I hope you find a bra that is comfortable for you and lots of support among this community too - good luck x

  • Hi Mrs Cor10

    My diagnosis was similar to yours and it sounds as if the incisions are in the same place. There are some excellent crop top style bras from Primark (£8, slightly padded which feel protective and are supportive, not the ribbed cheaper ones). These were great and I still occasionally wear them now and there’s lots of style of knickers that go with them. I had a couple of the cheaper front fastening bras but in my opinion they do little apart from cover up so I wore for sleeping for a couple of weeks then abandoned. A proper sports bra was best as this applied enough pressure to ease swelling and felt comfortable and protective. 

    I remember thinking I wouldn’t be able to wear a normal bra again but actually it’s about having time to heal. Once the incisions have healed you may find things are and feel differently so I would hold off buying loads until you know. I was back in my usual underwire bras by the time I went for my surgery results after a month with no issues which would have been unimaginable when I was only a few days post surgery. 

    Hope your recovery goes well and you find something which suits you. x