Hi guys.
My journey started in oct23 when I found a small lump. Nothing showed in the mammogram, so had ultrasounds which caused concern, so had biopsies.
Mid Nov I was diagnosed with dcis non invasive hormone receptive cancer. (I can't remember all the terminology). So the plan was a lumpectomy and radiotherapy. But 1st the consultant wanted an mri of both sides.
Early Dec told left side clear, but right (with lump) also had other areas. So needed more biopsies and scans to establish what these were.
Today 2nd Jan told I had large areas of same non invasive cancer in right breast which needed a full mastectomy. But cos full mastectomy no need for radiotherapy (I was considering asking about mastectomy rather than lumpectomy any way). But I have been offered reconstruction at time of mastectomy or later. And the options of different reconstruction methods. Implant, or fat from another part of the body.
I have read the very in depth literature they've given me and get pros and cons (I think) of the various methods. But I would like to hear what other people's experience is of any of the different reconstruction methods...time to heal, drive, walk the dog, travel, pain, success, satisfaction, numbness, sensitivity etc.
Once I decide which way (I've decided to have reconstruction at same time as mastectomy), they will book me in (prob 2-3weeks after). This is only for right side. They don't want to touch left as totally clear and to be honest I want to avoid any unnecessary intrusive surgery (everyone has their own opinion or feelings on this).
Thank you for reading my essay (tried to keep it to the point). The moving target and waiting, plus telling family has been the worst bit for me. We all have our own challenges. Running my own biz I learned not to stress over things you have no control over and focus on what you can have some effect on. It seems to have helped me with dealing with this.
Hugs to everyone and remember cancer does not define you. Xxx
Sorry to hear you are in pain and discomfort. Hope it settles soon for you.
My consultant said no radiotherapy as he would only do reconstruction after any radiotherapy, if radiotherapy was needed. Saying that they will check lymph nodes at time of operation, so just hope that doesnt throw a spanner in the works. The plan has changed that many times following more investigations, so who knows 
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply.
Xx
