Please read if newly diagnosed, or add to if you have had positive outcomes!

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I like to come on here, this day every year to give a bit of light to those recently diagnosed. I hope others will add to this thread about successful outcomes! And others just diagnosed will feel free to ask questions, 

I was diagnosed 3 years ago today and have made a full recovery. I continue to take tamoxifen and get a bit more fatigued when work gets stressful than I used too with a bit of pain in my ribs due to radiotherapy damage but nothing that’s not manageable. 

Yes I still worry about every ache and pain, but I’m well and cancer free.

So if you have been recently diagnosed or are going through treatment, try to remember the success rate for treating breast cancer is very high and whilst you are on a terrible roller coaster at the moment, you will come through it and be proud you did. Go with what every emotion is right for you, talk to people and ask for help. But above all, trust the amazing NHS and the staff who know what they are doing and will do their very best to get you through this. 

Edit…Today, I’ve just had my third clear mammogram. 3rd January 2024  today is another great dayGrinning

sending love and hugs x

  • Hi and thank you. I have been newly diagnosed and am terrified of what's ahead so reading this reminds me that I will beat this xx 

  • What a lovely thing you do! I was diagnosed in September this year and have had problems with sizing the tumour meaning I had several biopsies and tests. I finally had surgery on 21 November after it had been postponed three times. I am still waiting for the results and whilst I am terrified, I am am hoping for a good outcome.

    Initial information is that it is a grade 1 cancer, some dcis, er/hr positive and her2 negative and the area was quite big, whilst it was sold as a lumpectomy, it was more of a partial reconstruction using tissue from my back. 

    Your message gives me hope for the future, so thank you so much.

  • Gosh, this sounds exactly like mine. Had multiple lumps and a quarter of breast removed, tissue brought from my back. Then radiotherapy, good luck, with the rest of your journey. 

  • Thank you so much for wishing me well and giving us all hope for the future. 

    Best wishes 

  • Hello

    ive just been recently diagnosed with stage 2 invasive lobular cancer in at least one lymph node. I have just had an MRI scan and I’m waiting for my results next week and plan of action. It was strongly oestrogen positive but luckily HER negative. I was told to start tamoxifen immediately but I have other complex health issues and didn’t want a reaction to that drug that might jeopardise surgery etc. 

    im beyond terrified as I have rare disease that means I can react to lots of drugs, chemicals, foods, drinks etc. 

    I’m also dealing with severe anxiety and depression from being on two prescription class C drugs that I can’t get off. Not an ideal situation to be embracing this next challenge in my life but I will give it my best shot! X

  • I’m terrified of the horrible year ahead too. Not coping well & struggling to think positive Cry
    Counselling session booked for next week- a week before surgery. Hope they can get me in a healthier mindset.

  • Thankyou for sharing its nice to read a positive message from somebody who's been there and is now living cancer free . I had a single masectomy and reconstruction 2 weeks ago and I am slowly getting back on my feet . Xxx

  • thank you so much for this

  • Hi how did your mastectomy go I just had a mastectomy on Dec 11 and I’m not doing to bad some days I have a lot of aniexty but just take it easy day to day

  • Don’t think about it as a year.. day by day is more manageable. Treat yourself weekly and be kind to yourself. Wishing you all the best x