Hi,
I was diagnosed at clinic last Wednesday (26/4/23) after mammogram/USS and biopsies, going in next week for MRI then appointment with consultant to plan surgery and treatment.
I haven't been to work since my clinic appointment, but I'm now reaching the last of my 7 days self certificate so would need a doctor's sick note to stay off longer. I am physically well enough to work (other than fatigue) but don't feel mentally and emotionally able to focus. Also I feel I need to look after myself and relax, not be stressed with work. Have people been signed off by their doctors at this stage? Surgery won't be till mid June so should I get a grip and go back to work till then? They are being supportive so I feel guilty, but at the same time I think I would feel resentful of giving them my precious time if I go back!
Would be grateful to hear of other experiences ️
I had my diagnosis back in October 2022, and asked for a sick note from that time so I could focus on getting to my scans and other appointments. I needed time to understand and deal with everything, and I needed it and still do. I’m now 5 weeks after radiotherapy and still off until middle on July. Take the time, the Dr can sign you off sick for 3 months at a time for the first 6 months. You are the most important person here, don’t worry about what everyone else thinks.
My surgeon was happy to sign me off whenI was diagnosed before treatment started. I wouldn’t have been able to focus on work.
I'm self employed so worked throughout all treatment, with just a few days off after each chemo cycle and a few days off after my lumpectomy. It was really tough, though doable. If I'd been a permanent employee with the chance of sick pay, I would have been off from diagnosis. It is so much to process, your head is all over the place. I think it has probably taken longer for me to fully process everything as I haven't had any time off with it.
Take the time you need. Sick pay benefit is an amazing thing to have, so use it when you need it. It sounds like you really need it just now.
I am lucky my work told me I didn't need a sick note I could immediately have six months minimum full pay. However as I can work from home I have had very few days off sick - week after lumpectomy and week due to chemo side effects. However I have been working reduced hours so my sock pay has been used for that. I am having in effect 2 days sick a week instead of four as I work 35 hours over 4 days. I have found it very helpful from a mental health perspective to do a bit of work but they have been very clear I am in charge.
I was signed off in March straight after my diagnosis , I couldn’t sleep think straight let alone manage an operating theatre !!Good luck with your treatment x
I waa diagnosed 2 weeks ago waiting for my pre op assessment next Friday. My dr has given me a sick paper for 50 days x
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