Have been told that I’m not suitable for chemotherapy so will have mastectomy on right side but now have been told that the cells on the right side are still looking wrong and have to have another biopsy the third vacuum one I’ve had this year so am becoming a pro at this. Have finally been given a date for op though but am really scared as it’s been 3 months since diagnosis. Also one of my children (late 30’s) is so nonchalant about my diagnosis I feel he doesn’t care at all. Heartbreaking and could just do without the negativity at this moment. Luckily my daughters are brilliant but worried that I’m putting too much on them. Should I just ask for double mastectomy just to get it over with? Feeling really low at moment. Sorry if rambling just so confused
