Insomnia since mum’s diagnosis, feels like grief

I’m so sorry to hear of your mums diagnosis but I do know from experience that having positive people around me (with my Stage 3 cancer), helps enormously! I don’t want any negativity or sad faces! I want to move forward and get on with my life. So very tough for you but think of the huge benefits the NHS have brought us in treatments today!  The drugs (with some rubbish side effects admittedly) are there to kill off the bad cells. It’s a long road and it’s tough at times but your roll now must be as a support.  There are C clubs, loads of advice from MacMillan Navigators and help out there for you both. Stay as strong as you can.  I wish you both well xxx

Oh! And yes! It can get easier as you get used to the situation, appointments, etc. etc. Onwards and upwards…! Sending love and support xx

Hi Rina

I'm sorry to hear about your Mum's cancer.  It's perfectly understandable that you are feel you are grieving as it's hard when someone you love is diagnosed with cancer.  Things should start to get easier once your mother has her treatment plan.  Treatments have come on  a long way and continue to improve almost daily.

Wishing you and your mother the best of luck with what's ahead..

Best wishes

Daisy53

Thank you. Yes I’m defo making sure I’m able to be there as a positive support - have started the process of getting local support groups and some counselling sessions too. 

thanks a lot for the encouragement and advice! Wishing you all the best for your journey too xx

Thanks ever so much for your kind words Daisy, really appreciate it. Defo will feel better with more certainty and as things start happening and once over the initial shock. 

best wishes to you too for your journey xx