Hi All,
i thought it was about time i reached out to this community, rather than trying to cope with it all on my own!
I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in July and i'm actually having my last round of chemo next week but i have an operation and radiotherapy to look forward to in January.
I thought i was dealing with everything OK but i think the 5 months of chemo are finally catching up with me and i'm just feeling drained, physically and emotionally all the time and i'm actually feel more scared about the operation than i thought i would - albeit it is only a small operation compared to some!
Is this normal to feel like this?
Hi Bammie I am not at all surprised you are feeling this way. Chemo is a long slog and is cumulative, and it’s normal to worry about surgery. Try to make sure you celebrate the end of chemo, things do improve fairly quickly physically. I am not sure what sort of surgery you are having - I had a wide area excision and sentinel lymph node biopsy and found that easy to recover from - similarly my 5 days of radiotherapy. I also have TNBC but am not sure where I am on my journey as I now have a small secondary on my liver which is being removed through microwave ablation next week. I was diagnosed in February and have had surgery, 24 weeks of chemo and the radiotherapy. .
Hi Bammie I think it's absolutely normal to feel anxious. Horrid as chemo is, it's now familiar to you and the surgery is another unknown. Like you, I had chemo then surgery, so was able to have a less invasive surgery as the lump had shrunk.
It's maybe worth trying to do some things that you really enjoy between now and surgery and be kind to yourself, take some time to let you body recover from chemo. I keep busy as it keeps me from thinking and I know distractions help me, but we're all different and we respond in different ways.
best of luck for your surgery
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