Hi all I am going in for a double masectomy with immediate reconstruction via DIEP from abdominal area. I saw my plastic surgeon yesterday and have come away with so much anxiety which is something I ner have. I was diagnosed Triple negative stage 3 back in November 2019 had chemo for 6 months suffered with really severe pain in my legs followed by a lumpectomy then a further operation as the margs were not clear enough and then had 6 rounds of chemo in tablets form. My nipple began to leak and became inverted after asking and asking and asking to have it checked I finally got an appointmentnly to come down with covid the day before my appointment. I rang to cancel the appointment and asked for another to be sent after waiting a month I rang about a new appointment and was called back an appointment 3 days later. Swab was taken of the fluid leaking from my nipple which turned out to be blood I had a mammogram and the surgeon said that the previous calcification that was in my breast from my previous mammogram back in March 2020 had changed shape and it was very concerning so 12 biopsies were taken and then the 2 week wait. The results came back as precancerous cells and a masectomy is the only option left which really doesn't bother me as no more chemo or radiotherapy will be needed and I have opted for a double mastectomy (as described at the beginning of this version of war and peace lol) Has anyone done this please as a bit of inside information and reassurance is very much needed right now
I’m having a single mastectomy and diep on Thursday, it is really daunting and I too had a wobble after it was all spelled out to me, I came on here and some ladies who’d already had it were very reassuring. I think we have to expect it’ll be tough for the first few days, tough for the first couple of weeks but then we will recover and it’ll be ok good luck xx
Well, I'm due my single mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction on Tuesday.
I'm, well, I've been very brave so far but now I'm getting serious butterflies. I know it will all be alright in the end. I haven't been through any of the stuff you have with chemo though. I have a leaking and inverted nipple and the cells were cancerous. I have DCIS so we're hoping once it's cut out that will be the end of it.
We can only hope for and presume things will be okay, there's absolutely no point in worrying about the worst-case-scenario, worry impacts on our well-being and recovery. Try to be strong, for yourself, for your sanity and for your recovery.
I often think how things used to be, long before our time when they didn't have the means for such sterile operations, or for the pain killers etc. They were tanked up with alcohol if they were lucky and given a stick to bite down on.
We can thank our lucky stars that our cancers have been found in time, and that all the facilities are nearby to give us successful operations.
If you like I can let you know how it goes in as much or as little detail as you would like, just let me know.
Sending you lots of love, and peace and calm in your mind. Xxx
Hi
I had the full cancer treatment 2019/2020 (see profile) followed by a DIEP Dec 2020 and have , in Dec 2021, just had phase 2 of the reconstruction surgery.
It is tough at first following the DIEP, stomach feels very odd and mobility is challenging, you’re hunched over and your stomach will feel far too tight but after a couple of weeks or so you will feel improvement, one must is doing all the exercises that you’re given, they really help you return to normal. The operation is a biggie but as myself and lots of ladies have found out it is very doable, yep there are risks as with all types of surgery but those encountering those risks are few & far between. Once you’ve recovered you will look back and agree with me that it was the right choice, promise.
For me the DIEP was no more of a challenge (just a different type) than the cancer treatments I’d already had.
And my new rack looks fab!!!
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