Hi, afraid I have no real advice but just solidarity as I am in the same situation, awaiting biopsy results taken on Friday and been told they are sure it is cancer. Terrified but trying not to panic until have all the information and can make a plan. Good luck x
Hello both. This is the worst time but once you have results and outline treatment plan you will feel better. I'm 6 years post diagnosis, I had WLE (lumpectomy) & radiotherapy. I didn't require chemo as. Had DCIS. Not hormone receptive so no hormone treatment either. I had prepared myself for my funeral before biopsy results ! I went through sane again when recalled fro, year 6 mammogram. Turns out that just be ultra cautious, I find it strange I sleep well the night before results but crap every other night x
Hi thanks for your reply, also trying not to panic but easier said than done. Can i ask if you have told your family yet? Im in 2 minds as i dont want to ruin Christmas for everyone but also dont like keeping things back from them. Good luck to yourself as well x
Hi I waited nearly 3 months before I told my sons and family as treatment took that time. I didn’t want to worry them too much but had to tell them before chemo as it was tormenting the hell out of me. Felt relief once I told them x
It is really hard not to panic. I told my husband, parents and inlaws as I'm terrible at hiding my emotions! We have a 2 year old daughter so she is too young to understand. Want to make sure xmas is special for her regardless.
Hello, I was diagnosed in September and told immediate family and very close friends over a couple of weeks. I was upset and so didn't want them thinking I was being rude or off for no reason, as I just didn't want to communicate with people following my diagnosis. They gave me the time I needed and now nearly 4 months later, I have told more people and am able to talk about it a bit better. Do it in your own time, but you may find you need loved ones to know so they can support you. I'm going for my preparation for radiotherapy tomorrow, following two WLE operations and have been tearful for a few days now, but at least people know the reason. I found the waiting was not good for me and you may find talking through your fears may help. Whoever you decide to tell, do it in your own time is my best advice. Sending good thoughts.
