I think i have a new disease wig mania.

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 I think i have a new disease ? 

We may need to be on our guard as I have identified a new disease some of us  may be susceptible too ,  wig mania. I have never given  a thought in my life about wearing a wig , why would I ? I have hair and I don't suffer with alopecia.

This new condition I seem to have is the fault of my oncologist. It started  when she handed me a wig voucher ? I hadn't really spent much time thinking about my hair, she obviously knew the chemotherapy drugs she was going to pop me on, were going to seriously have an effect on my hair. So I got my first wig its a nice blond bob . The only thing is I fancied a long straight one too , okay so really i fancied a straight day now and then , so I got one from Amazon its lovely . When it came I was so pleased with it , and it would have been even better, if it was in pink. I have always thought it would be fun to dye my hair pink for a short time but I have never had the courage to do that . and I can't do that now so ... i got a little pink wig, its lovely !

With Christmas approaching as fast as my decreasing hair line, when my son asked me what I would like this year , bless him he knows how difficult its been . before I could even engage my brain I found myself saying as quick as a flash "an Ombrey wig with a fringe and choppy ends" , I haven't got one of those ! This may turn out to be a serious disease for me ! Just take care out there hope you don't catch it . Jayne 

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  • That's brilliant! There was a woman at my work with terminal cancer and she had a few different wigs and when she came into the office, she would just choose whichever style she fancied on the day. I always thought it was such a great idea to have multiple styles if you could.

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    Former Member in reply to Beatthebreast

    Now don't tempt me beathebreast!  I'm addicted I need help ! 

    Jayne 

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    Former Member in reply to Northerner

    Yes Margaret deep breath before I click on buy again ,   I must  count to ten !!! I can do it it won't take long x 

    Jayne 

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    Former Member in reply to Northerner

    I wonder if I could get a vaccine to help me with the cravings ? 

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    Hi Rhiwbina,

    What a brilliant idea to have different wigs. Perhaps a different look for each day of the week.

    Oops, I should not be encouraging you!!

    When a woman goes on the cancer journey, why shouldn't she treat herself!!

    I was offered a wig consultation by my oncologist, but decided to go bald when I started to loose my head hair. I bought a selection of different coloured headscarves & sleep caps.

    Enjoy your wigs, stay safe & take great care of yourself.

    Jen Slight smile

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hi Jen  I  also love the  beanie hats on Amazon! This has been a journey a  rollercoaster I'm rolling right into my next Chemo Next Thursday.  Yer don't encourage me it's bad enough X it's strange it's just a day since my hair started to fall I want it all gone now X 

    Jayne 

  • Rhiwbina ....there has to be some sort of upside to having chemo - I truly believe it is the opportunity to have a wig if that's what you want and if that helps to get you through it successfully. I wanted a wig immediately I was diagnosed, looking to a very bleak future at that time, but had no knowledge of cancer at all at the time and I didn't need the chemo, just everything else. Loss of hair as well as loss of breasts was my biggest fear and it may be the same for quite a lot of women.

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    Former Member in reply to Venicelagoon

    Hi Venicelagoon , yer you are right I have no breasts now but  picked up my new ones yesterday from the hospital. And now no hair,  but having my wigs has helped so much . I suppose I will be wearing them untill next summer , lucky me ! 

    Jayne 

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hi Jayne,

    I agree it is a rollercoaster of a journey we ladies find ourselves on.

    This my sound awful but it is how I've managed to cope most of the time, yes I've had a few wobbles along the way.

    I lost both my husband (Jan 2014) & my youngest sister (Dec 2020). They both had terminal lung cancer.

    I drew inspiration from their attitude, dignity & humour (sometimes black humour), which gave me the strength to accept my diagnosis "it is what it is" & let my medical & surgical teams do their very best for me.

    My two consultants (Breast Care & Oncology) have been absolutely brilliant, as have the nurses & other medical staff.

    Stay safe, take great care of yourself & remember to be kind to yourself. If necessary be selfish as you need to put yourself first.

    Jen Slight smile