Hi, I am 4.5 weeks post lumpectomy and now struggling with the changes to my breast. Initially everything looked the same, other than the obvious very blue die, bruising and an ugly red scar but I new these would fade and become less prominent. I was relieved and happy to have got through ok. I was being nieve, I didnt realise it was because of all the swelling that my breast looked normal. Now this is reducing I am struggling, just above my nipple and below my scar the breast is sinking making my nipple indent at the top and so it points upwards. However more crucially I have developed hard scar tissue where my tumour was (just above 1 side of the scar) and it is making a lump in my breast bigger and more uncomfortable than the tumour was. I still have bruising and a lot of die. I wonder if anyone else had the scar lump and if theres anything I can do to reduce it/soften it at all its a little uncomfortable. Thanks. Body image shouldnt matter but the changes can take some getting used to. Oh and when comparing both breasts its like some comedy cross eyed face with both nipples at different heights and pointing different directions.
Hi Waterspirit. I had a lumpectomy Dec 2020 and it is only now that the scar tissue has almost disappear. I had a few physio sessions to help with exercise and massages in the area. I will say lots of patience and keep massaging the area. I got a roller-ball thingy online ( like a roll-on deodorant) and it helped, specially when my other arm was tired of doing all the hard work. For the body image part, my radio-ed breast swell and 7 months later there's still a difference in size. I was very self consious when wearing summer tops, luckily the cooler weather brings layers of clothing. x
Thank you for replying, so it can be encouraged to go even though it may take time. I am having physio for cording soon so will mention to them. Ta again, reasurring.
My nipples also are at different heights and in different directions, but I am grateful that I was able to keep so much of my breast! It is weird getting used to a change in shape, but the alternative is far worse and I have to remind myself of that. I have a very supportive husband who thinks nothing of the new shape and just thinks the scar is another war wound and part of my story.
I am 7 months post lumpectomy and I'd say the swelling is only just going now, and my breast is starting to feel a little softer The hardness along and around the scar has lasted a long time and rads made that worse. My oncologist said it really wouldn't be until 6 month post-rads that I would be in a final position with how things look, so I still have a another couple of months to go.
I use bio-oil twice a day to massage in to the scar and think that helps. You have to stop using it for around 6 weeks after radiotherapy but I resumed again after that.
I still have to do the raising arm exercises every day as I am still a bit stiff, and I keep very active so it's not like I'm sitting around not doing anything. The nerves take a long time to recover and I still get pain and limited mobility when I try and lift something the wrong way.
But these are small things, I am very much back to enjoying my life and grateful for everything that has been done for me.
Hi
I got some silicone scar reduction dressings from amazon as I was upset about my raised scars which rubbed on my bra
After 4 weeks of wearing them my scars had flattened incredibly.
Note you can’t use these on open wounds and I had to take them off once I had my radiotherapy planning but I’m really please now with my scar
The dressings were about £8 a box of 4 but you can cut them in half to get 8 depending on your scar size
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