So, I have been on this forum since I got my dx in 2016. This forum has provided the most amazing support ever - I can't even consider how I would cope without it. Plus I have found so many longer standing friends.
I have hesitated whether I should post this but I want to. Even though my dx was in 2016 and I finished my active treatment in June 2017, I feel it is really important that people still comment to support everyone going through this whole shitbag of shit! And important we recognise people who have been there before us.
Even though I do not have secondaries atm, I have still followed members who have. I would like to say goodbye and good night to . I have noticed messages for her from the home page.
cwtches,
Gay xxx
was a shining star on the 'incurables' forum, always facing her difficulties with humour whilst also giving advice and comfort to others in a similar position.
She will be sorely missed and I send her family condolences on her sad loss. I'm sure she will continue to be a shining star wherever she is...
Rest in peace Lara.
Such sad news...
Used to chat with Lara a few years back in the breast group during her BC treatment but after Lara moved to the Incurable Patients Only Group could only follow her messages.
Wee blonde was always so upbeat and caring to other members there and the wicked sense of humour in her replies raised everyone's spirits - her loss will cause a few tears in the incurables group where she was as mentioned a shining star
Really going to miss seeing her "Hard working, bubbly, positive" tagline Sincere condolences to her husband and daughter at this tough time but Lara would want us to think of her and smile.
G n' J
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