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Sending you great big hugs for tomorrows scans LondonLassHope they go to time and that you get the results quickly XX Kwissy
Night every one sleep well
Good luck tomorrow LondonLass, I'm sure lucky pants will be sticking close to his Mummy xxxx
Thanks Northerner, that really made me smile!
Thanks for all the lovely messages, I know I’ll be fine once I’m there! As for results.... my actual results appt isn’t until the 23rd Dec! So a month to wait?! However last time the report was accidentally sent to me before my appointment so fingers crossed they mess up again!!
Night night Fruit Loops xxxx
Dearest LondonLass.... you need post 'that' and then run off to the naughty chair - okay, I would love to be organised for Christmas, it would be brilliant and I have 'looked' online at items - yet the days come and go, mainly because I seem to be sleeping 'all the time' - I so wished I could find somthing I could have that would keep me awake
- its not funny anymore. So the days are flying passed and I am getting now where - just deeper in ****
Nipped on to wish you well for tomorrow Sal, we will all be thinking of you. I will be praying that your results are good and that Lucky Pants behaves himself.... he might even have a word with them about how stupidly long that appointment date is for the results.. lets hope they mess up or they re-arrange.
Fruit Loops, thinking of you all and I wish you all a restful and peaceful nights sleep xxxxxxx
Like I say I haven't been diagnosed and it's silly things that set me off. My mum is my escape route with it 'sometimes' - if she says 'you know that's not right, you can do that' etc. Then on other things, like, every night on the phone before we hang up, I have to ask mum if she's had all her tablets.... but I can't say that, I have to say 'have you had your statin, have you had your etc etc - each time mum will say yes, but if she says anything else then I have to 'have to' start again and mum is 'I'm not doing this, just say have I had them all'...... and you know I can't - "Thankfully" mum will let me start again - if she was to not do this the anixety for me would be far greater than the 'two minutes or so of letting me say it my way' - so your 'not accommodating it' well, for your daughter must be terrible.... the thing is, if your daughter is anything like mine.... we are doing it 'in our minds' to, get this.... 'protect you or the house' - with mine, I don't come into it, if it was to help me, or stop bad things happening to me, then I think I could stop this. It's so stupid, so irrational, but.... for my silly ones... it's just better for me to do it 'that' way in hope to avoid the 'bad' things.
I think if you 'don't accommodate' it - well I'm thinking this would just make it far, far more worse and even heighted in her mind - in turn making her more mad. My thoughts would be to accommodate it and talk it though, little by little - episode by episode - find out what her 'this will happen' if it's done a different way.
(I am saying this and like I have said, I have not been diagnosed and try to keep it hidden - your daughters thought process could be a completely different to mine).
Thinking of you and your dear daughter.
Sending love to all the Fruit Loops xxxxxx
Morning all, just popping in to say ‘good luck’ to lovely LondonLass, look forward to hearing about LP’s adventures later. Hope it’s all straightforward and quick. Lots of love to all, HFxxxx
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