Been a while my brain tumour has been rescanned and the doctors took a bit from by brain. They tell it’s rare form and they explain it’s like a load of dots of the cancer all over by brain. At the moment it’s inactive but they say it will come back, but don’t know how. All they have said when it does it will take me.
To go with that just after Xmas my wife has left me.
Home is up for sale looking to move to somewhere smaller. The tumour has affected hearing and walking un aided. I’m trying to get fitter and stronger everyday. Really hard having to rely on people to things for me. Luckily I’ve got three lovely kids who support me as much they can. They all have the own family to look after. My x will not even talk to discuss things because she lost the motability new car which she got when i became ill. Cannot remember anything of the last 15 years, motability found out that the car was not doing being used to help me and not being parked at address so insurance was being affected. So she blames me for her not swanning about in a new car.
Life has been turned upside down, looking for a new flat or somewhere to move to.
Hello and thank you for your email. I am sorry to hear that you are struggling. Sadly, this is all part of the brain journey we are on.
With regards to your partner leaving and the emotional impact that has had on you, all I can say is time is a healer and you will heal. I do not know the reasons for the departure but in many ways this shows the person may not be for you. It is so important to seek support from friends and family, as well as exploring Macmillan groups to join. Talking about your condition and the real feelings you are experiencing in a group with likeminded people will help you feel that you aren’t alone. Perhaps explore these options? There is so much support in the wider community that I am sure will empower and prop you up. Be brave. It’s a tough journey to be on. I always say ‘put your big girl/boy pants on and find something to get you through today’. Take care and hope this has helped in a small way.
Prawn 
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